THE SIGNS ARE ALWAYS THERE

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Marriage is sweet, so I heard , but my dear, there is much to it than our eyes can see, while dating make sure you check for the following signs...

BEA

*** Does he listens to you? 
*** Is he an aggressive person? 
***Has he ever raised his hands to hit you before? 
***Is he transparent in all his dealings with you? 
***Can you truly trust him? 
***Are you comfortable with him? 
***Can you freely give him your kidney in the worst case scenario? 

BOO

***You brag about her but can you leave her with your friend? 
***Is she respectful and hospitable? 
***Can you tolerate her excesses?
***Does she encourage you at all? 
***Does she support in the most littlest things? 
***Can you truly give her your kidney in the worse case situation? 

The list is endless,
when its all rosy.
When the money is there.
When the going is sweet,
what atitude does she bring to the table.? 

Sometimes, cause a fight and see her reactions, make some assumptions about her and see the outcome, stage the play and see how she reacts.

Many a time we are carried away by the boobs, the hips, the money and glamour, we find it hard to see the signs that is facing us in relationship.

When we finally settle in marriage, we start regretting why we failed to reach out.. Open your eyes now.

No one is perfect. Dont go in and assume people will change, your expectation will hunt you.. Watch out for the signs now

The things I hear I share... Please am not a marriage counsellor, am just a love Doctor 😷 huh

Vivsravine speaks ©

Comments

  1. ototonwa13 June 2020 at 00:59

    Marriage is sweet nevertheless.....
    When there is understanding and hood communication

    ReplyDelete
  2. Vivsravine13 June 2020 at 05:57

    Very true...

    ReplyDelete

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