VIVSRAVINE

If you understand that life comes in phases, you wont be bothered by what happens around you so keenly. So many things are enough to make you feel less a person, when you allow them take hold of you. There are catalyst who propels you to go out of your way to see that things are done or better still satisfy people and contents, yet we also have pressures who forces you to do things out of your will power to satisfy personal self or a greedy community. Be intensional about everything you do, don't allow sentiments of any sort becloud your thoughts. Be accountable for your actions, take responsibilities for them and make sure you avoid every form of explanation to anyone, they are absolutely distractions. Never apologise for your feelings because you were intensional about it, rather make feasible ammends in the situation where you hurt any one. Always remember that life comes with various choices, many will intimidate us, yet a few will give us opportunities to be better of,

Sometime ago, i had a chat with a friend and as I listened to all that was said, I made my pionts written, so as to share with my beloved.. Marriage is not for scattered people, it is for people who have assembled themselves in the following ways: Mentally Financially Physically Emotionally Sciologically Academically Sexuallly Spiritually If you find your partner boring  or scared to be with or relate with or you feels he or she has taken advantage over you, please leave quietly. Relationships has to be with friendship, if you are not committed or in communication to your partner.. Stay away from them than hurting them. The quality and content of your person is what makes the substance of who you are. Oh, if you have love  in your heart  and you cant communicate it to your partner, then you are dead. Why you do have to condem someone who is making efforts Hmm,People might even tell you, that you are crazy  for communicating, set your goals, ignore the naysayers and plan

  You put on a lot to attract a fellow, looking like one loosed harlot from sudan, eyelashes horrible stops you from seeing your future, nails looking like those of the toes of a mad hen, my dear, you can still keep it simple without using all these.  Still on still you pierce your nose, open almost all the lobes of your ears, your belly bottom isn't left out,you wear all the metals in the name of pure gold and be looking so dirty and unkempt, you can still look simple without these too. Now, they will hate me again, but I will still air my views, its yours to keep, leg chains, waist beads, amlets, blue eyes, bracelets, heavy finger rings, necklace like three at a time, please how do you feel comfortable with all these at once?  Again, you  wear all the designers, all you think of is party after party, what's more can you offer in life? . Before they say you are jealous of their shapes and inplants, what I wonder about is how and why will any one feel less of himself and go out

  Sometimes last week, a sister sent me a private mail in a family group I i managed and narrated to me her ordeal, don't worry she gave me the permission to share her story, she happens to have fallen in love with a brother and she doesn't know how to express her feelings to him, since she sees it as not African to approach a guy first. The subject matter was posted in the group and a lot of reactions came from both men and  women alike. 90% of the ladies, said she shouldn't ever open up her mouth  to say a word to the brother in bid of expressing her feelings, many gave so many reasons why she shouldn't. All the men shared their mindset, that we only die once, that she should make him know her thoughts and be ready to take what ever consequences comes up or better still the bliss there in. Meanwhile, since the whole discussion was hitting up, I decided to consult a relationship coach my good friend Olarotimi Olagunju , his views about this said topic. After so m

Be intentional.. Your intention is connected to your direction.  Your direction is connected to your intuition. Your intuition brings about reality.  I love it simple, because simple things are beautiful, but even when it's simple, I don't and won't settle for less. I am intentional, am directed by my intuitions, and i aim for the goal form the beginning, because my eyes on the price, the rewards gladens the soul.  Who buys an island without making plans for his needs, buy me a forest, I make an empire from it, yet keep it simple.  I smile at the haze I laugh at the moments I wait for the season I cry knowing all would be well I lend a hand because I have been there Keep it simple but be intensional.. ITS CALLED RESPONSIBLE FREEDOM. As free as it seems yet many are under the bondage of life and even self they are so attached to the worries of life that they fall to liberate themselves.  Vivsravine speaks 

There is always this realities you see whenever you come across a couple hand in hand.  Both deceiving themselves.  One deceiving the other.  Both truly into each other without no doubts.  Both not committed to each other.  One committed to the other.  These scenarios are very funny but so true to ignore, so many are living in pretence, others are genuinely involved while some are just in such relationship for benefits they enjoy. The sad reality is that many divorced couples was once in love or had a fraction of likenness for the other yet they still got separated, it doesn't matter how long they have shared in the relationship, when they are truly tried of each other, the eventually separate. Behind every couple you come across there is a war between, a sweet laughter and sad reality looming their minds, rather they prefer to either hold in for each other and move ahead or they display displeasure and go their separate ways. So many who had a happy ever after can tell the story o

I was created  to love you . My teacher You are the reason I came your way My muse I was made to give you my all My partner I was fashioned to bring you joy My mentor I was blessed to be your support My forever I was built to make you an empire My productivity I was called for a purpose My future I was crowned a queen My king I was nourished to be the best My domain I was given a new mandate My reason I was me before you changed me My treasure The reason, the purpose, the everything... A lot in a being. Responsible freedom, the consciousness of the mind. This isn't a poem, it's beyond the literal, be open to your thoughts, be conscious of your inner mind, take responsibility of all you do, be free as a bird yet know where you land. The signs, the words, the actions they all piont to something being reminded that we all make our choice to either stay with someone with their faults or leave them with their short comings. No matter what happens never be