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 I saw a post where someone made a comment and said "try and sit at the other side and see how painful it is when you talk down on people. It is so sad and never a welcoming situation when you feel you are always better of, you don't have an iota of what people go through and you just imagine or assume somethings can never happen to you.  Sincerely, no one ever wishes for anything wrong or bad to happen to them but again, life always happens, a minute we merry the next second we are in pains, we find answers to our pligths and again we just wonder and weary why and how it all happened. Life, isn't for us to determine or control rather we can only impact on our best possible ways and give it our all and even most times it is never enough, we cannot steer the affairs of life.  Don't dare laugh or merry at any one's pains  because you feel you are better of, don't mock them because you are not in their positions, don't talk down on them, don't ignore them

 This indeed is my first write up in a long while after my break and of course I can record a year like 2024, hmm, the outlook I have for 2024 is more important to me than another other thing. Sometimes, life can be so uncertain that you wonder if there was any good thing that truly happens in a world full and filled with so much distractions and negativity and challenges.  Many a time there are many things we never wished for nor pray for, yet life happens and no matter how good or right you can be, there are things you can't ever slove, make sure you have peace on your inside to forge ahead.  We are all individuals with flaws, none is ever perfect, never kill that human part of your self, come out of it and be a better person, don't lose your humanity, remember to be kind and patient with your self and the next person around you.  So many people are gone, so many are bedridden, so many are involved in so many circumstances they never can fathom how it started and how it happe

 A very happy new year to all my fans here, it's indeed being a journey and life shows up in various ways to us, we are either sad, happy or indifferent as to the realities that life brings to us. Personally, the previous year was filled with so much activities and events for me, am certain it's the same with some of us here, no matter what happens and what it offers, if you could read this, be assured that there is still light at the end, hope in the living is better than been dead.  I know you have a lot to share, experiences so painful and even joys so refreshing, wished we all can tend towards the same direction of only recording bliss and staying real in this regard. How do we also bear with those who are in subjected pains, or those who are victims of circumstances, or those who out of their own carelessness are involved in perpetual regerts, the list is so endless, wished it wasn't so. To us here in Nigeria, it is an election year and so many has happened already, we

 Honestly, marriage isn't for the feeble hearted, it takes lots of grace to live with someone you never grew up with, someone you met along the way in life and you decide to spend the rest of your life with them. Love they say is blind most especially when you are courting and dating but it's highy different when you eventually get married, love turns to become an open reality, you either chose to ignore for peace sake or you talk about it and face the war therein. Often times, love isn't enough to sustain a home, there are so many things that supports and rekindles the home, yes love is one of them but never enough to keep that home going. Most times we are carried away and blinded by love when we fall in love but the hardest reality faces us when we get married and we are between leaving or staying, you checks all the pros and cons and decide what is best for you. There are some actions your spouse takes and do and you start to wonder why they did that, you never saw it c

 Why do men cheat she asked me?  Thinking of the best reply, I told her many are flirts and they love it that way.  Yet they are highy jealous with their own women and they don't share, i told her again.  It takes massive grace to be in a relationship, most especially when your partner hides a lot of things from you, still clings to apron strings and finds it hard to let go of past relationships she said.  Pray for your partner if you are with one, if he doesn't go after them, they come after him, I said. Many of them who are cheats, pretend alot and they are always quick to accuse the other of cheating and not being faithful.  Recently, they can show all forms of commitment to you but their minds are far form you.  They are so ready to defend and justice all their actions when they know you know about their shady affairs and they come out clean but certainly they pretend alot.  It's always easier for a woman in a relationship to adhere to her man and keep her affairs to ju

  If you have a decent mind, and earn decent money, and make decent financial decisions, and associate with decent friends, while marrying a decent person, no spiritual or physical force can prevent you from having a decent life-Genesis 8:22 Reno nuggets