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  Many won't ever learn from situations that befalls them, they are so carried away chasing what is not in there lane. To some, many wants to have a little chance to prove to you why they should be in your life and they will never ever get that moment, while some are busy chasing those who don't want them at all. More so, we have some other people who are in your life but they don't value you at all, rather they ignore you and make your effort fruitless, just look closely you will find an open hand, waiting for an embrace, someone who values your person and is ready to give you the world. Often times, we want it all prefect, we want it all rosy, we don't ever want to compromise our standards, but be reminded that we can't have it all, no one ever has it all. Find reasons to fall,see reasons to interest your person, lower your guard and search for a diamond in a cloudy heart, none is that bad that he can't be loved and none is that perfect that seeks to be l

When you solely want something you go for it, there might be loads and loads of obstacles but a determined mind sees no hurdles, rather he sees them as a catalysts to push to the next level, he damns all to make wave to his goals When you see a break ligth, you need not to be told about the next event, instead be prepared about the worst cases scenario, cause when it eventually happens you are not fully broken because you can still pick yourself up and be you again. Appreciate every moment that comes your way, it can be sweet or soar but be guided and never be carried away by any situation, good or bad, make maximum use of the situation to learn and to be impactful, because time waits for no man. In your good times, rejoice very well like its your last and please touch lives, don't be selfish and in your bad times learn so much here, so as to help someone who might be in your shoes some day Finally, I write because we are all in one of those moments of life, how well do we use

  Just almost when I  got to the food stuff sellers shop, she also arrived, carrying Agege bread on her head, looking so hagged and hungry. Ije uwa. How much is this rice, it looks so fine, the food seller replied her, its 400 per derica, while I was waiting to be attended to, she continued, give me one derica, I don't eat rice with stones, I won't be able to eat it, she told the food seller, she buttressed again,  I can't eat rubbish because I don't have money, I left with my items while I pondered on the scene that just played out, the bread seller looks so unkept, probably from the hawking and again very hungry, even though she might not be able to afford the perfect life, but she deserves to eat the best, even if thats not what life has given to her. Many a time, we feel we are better than others because we are in a good position, we feel they don't deserve to get the best things in life, we feel they can't pass the road we have crossed, we feel they don

It's the right of a man to find the woman and it's the right of the woman to chose the man and that is why when a man finds a woman he asks for her hand in marriage and if she chose him amongst all others she can easily say yes having considering why he is different with the right values to stick to him for life. To the woman : *Do you know this man. *Is he someone you can submit to. *What are the values that makes you stick to him. *What are his visions and mission in life. . *Dose he have the capacity and sustainability to keep and take care of you and a family. *Is he a man of integrity and a man of respect, who projects peace and can protect you. *Does he submit to higher authority and godly authority. *Does he have mentors who supports his vision in life To the man: *Do you know this woman. *Is she someone you can love. *Does she project the image of your future. *Is she someone you can be proud of to present any time. *Is she submissive to your person. *D