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  Indeed, its said that when we appreciate little things, bigger things would come our way. More so, give honour to whom it deserves, I don't take them for granted.  Its always my usual routine to appreciate and thank those who tremendously impacted in my life during the year and even over the years that have reminded consistent and resilient. To my family, I will always thank God for allowing our paths to cross in a lifetime, thank you all for your prayers, goodwill and support most especially my brother Michael Ubasinachi Oparah , my twinny Olisa gozie gi.  To a blood, who is greater than a brother, a friend and even a lover of good things , bro Oguchi Charles Onyekuru, when one looks for a support, indeed you are one helper and angel God sent to liberate mankind from pains, your support in all aspect of life can never ever be forgotten till I kpe, God bless you more for all you do and may he meet you at the very piont when you need him most. To my boss, Mr. Dele Dare , a selfles

  I heard a story of a guy who was recently released from prison, he had a job interview on a particular day, on his way for his interview he was well dressed and approaching an accident scene he ran to save the driver before the car burst into flames and some how he missed his interview because he took the man to the hospital. Somehow, so many people heard about what he did and they decided to rise funds for him in tune of millions and he also had better job offers. When asked why he decided to abandon his interview, he said "many more job offers would come, but we just have one life to live" This singular act opened alot of opportunities for him and rewarded him for a gesture, to save lives often times we are carried away by our own  probelms and forget that our neighbours needs more help than our present challenges. A touch can save a life, an act can change a generation, a call can better a life, a visit can revive a soul, a hand can change a destiny, a smile can hea

Recently, every space and blog has alerted us about her divorce and separation of the monarch's wife from the Royal family, so many reactions cropping from her release yesterday. Here is my opinions as to the reactions so many has thrown to either disapprove her decisions or applaud her reactions. Its better to live with purpose than to die with pains, maybe if not eveyone but some of us has either indulged with wrong relationships or just walked away from one, sometimes we can't forsee the future with someone untill we fully indulge. It takes courage, strength and wisdom to leave such a marriage coupled with the fact that a lot of people feels she is okay and in wealth so why leave the marriage? When you find out any of these in a relationship (occultism, diabolic acts and domestic violence/abuse and decit ) my dear its high time you leave with your life fully in sanity else you will be pronounced dead. I will say this again, i don't support divorce because it's for be

There is nothing in this life that's new and worth dying for, nothing is worth struggling for, nothing is worth killing for,nothing is worth envying for. Really, check all around you now,so many have gone with their lands and gold, with their fame and power, with their possessions and assets, oh what a life.. Value everyone who comes along, appreciate all,even the worst of persons, life is totally strange and awesome, you can't predict the next moves. Make your relationship with your creator count , build a personal relationship with him,sow and lead a good life because only the end matters. I am speaking to you and surly you so know what am talking about ,everything is worth having yet everting is vain. Make ammends while you can, because everything is passing. Keep it open and simple, life isn't fair Live freely, you never can predict the next moment Owe no man, in all you don't be in debts Keep it simple, it's beautiful that way.  Be accountable to you

Recently, a young boy was molested in school and eventually killed, bloggers carried alot of news about it while some ended up telling the family to move on. Its so sad to know that we often pretend to hide under something because we are not directly affected. How do you tell a woman who has lost an only child to any means to move on and continue from the pain. How do you easily tell a woman who has nurtured a relationship for years to move on after a heart break? How do you console a man who has lost everything in a day to move on and be a man? How do you watch a loved one die in your presence and some one is telling you to move on. She lost her newly wedded groom in days and now she is a young widow, maybe she lost her husband of so many years of bliss and you ask her to move on. We are/were first human beings before we could be anything else, it's so hard to move on, start again and forget about things because we are totally humane, no matter how strong we act, we have this part

When people misplace.. Priority.. Prospects Property.... Priority is what comes first before pursuing other things... Prospects... Are the things you probably want to chase or you are chasing already Property is what you legally own or a right given to you.. Please understand this and you get it right, don't make others feel wrong or stupid just because you haven't found themselves or are positioned to take charge and do what is rigth and expected. I might not be the best of me or what you expect of me but am me, someone once said "expect less from people and expect more from yourself, that the only way to stay happier but be reminded that you are the best version of yourself . You are not out to please everyone one yet its better to impact lives in your smallest and widest domain, that's all that matters. Live and be true to yourself, don't let little nothings and bigger something  which is temporary and fake affect or influence your person ,your integr

Fighting is just the show of strength and expressing vengeance on your neighbour. Fighting has never produced anything good or palatable, funny enough, some will indulge in fighting and either kill their opponent or it results fatal injury. Why not walk away, no one has ever gained accolades for beating up another, no one won the trophy for injuring his fellow, no one has been given cash price for being violent. Yes, I understand sometimes it feels good to directly deal with people who truly offend us, but to what end do we enjoy such memories? Fighting and vengeance has nothing good to offer those who indulge, absolutely nothing, when you kill, you face the law and either remain in prison custody or you are killed also and sadly face God's wrath or you pay the price of treating who you inflicted injury on, honestly fighting has no gains. Let me add this, its okay not to believe in God and live and act carefree like you deem fit but have you ever thought of the reality of dea

 I was reminded again of how blessed I am!  I have a vehicle that gets me from place to place, I have a roof over my head, clean clothes, money to buy a hot meal, running water, electricity, my health, a job, family, and friends! Sometimes God sends situations our way to remind us of how blessed we are! So many are sane and they don't have a bit of what we have, it's so clear to us that we should learn to respect people, appreciate them remain thankful for all that life offers us. There are stories of people you can't imagine what they are going through, trust eveyone you come across in life has a story they haven't shared. The crust of life is that we all bear them and sometimes we share to encourage or encounter others who are either privileged or those who are in our pain. Life comes in phases, to someone they are enjoying it, to other they are enduring theirs, there is never a mixed phase, it's either good or bad phase, one must happen. Try not to envy a

  Often times we hear different things and situations in relations that are mostly erotic in nature. There are some who have defined their relationships from day one and they worked towards it tirelessly admits all odds and still ended together as a beautiful family. Hence, there are some who never defined their relationship and some how fate made them build a happy ending. Again, there are some who intensionally are in that relationship for selfish gains, knowing that they will never settle for their partners and all they succeed in doing is wasting their time and those of their partners. While there are some who snatched, stumbled and had they most nonchalant attitude in relationship and eventually had a good union and vice versa. We also have some who out of desperation due to age, widowhood single, motherhood and other unknown factors went into a marriage for the sake having a companion who migth never be there, while some of the so mentioned later became fortunate in the uni

  Recently Tyetribbett and Shantet celebrated 24years anniversary of their marriage, though in their forties, very youthful couple with great dreams, scaling through all challenges and proving to the world that true love stil exists. There too, we saw a viral video of Jordan and her lover making a lot of singles wonder if they would ever find such love that exists among them only to be heart broken at the end of the video where she was indeed battered by her lover and you ask why on earth would any human being do such a thing to a soul you once professed love to. Olu and Joke recently showed us what love is all about despite his downtimes, they are waxing stronger than ever, that  singular act changed mindset and made many prayed and hope for beautiful grace in marriage. Yet, there are some many who would tell you otherwise about love and why it hurts badly, we all have our stories, positive and negative alike. Someone said, you can do everything rigth in a relationship but still

  Excuse you, I put this to you love fluctuates, know this and know peace. Often times we wonder why is our partners behaving absurd, you can't tell exactly why they are acting up and no matter how much you give in to make it rigth it ends up negatively. You wonder why some one you were so much in love with now sees you like trash and often times there are some reasons why you can't explain the hate. Well situations prompts why people either allow their love to blossom or fade away, but be reminded that love is like a moving flag it comes and goes and when it's finally no more, it is pulled down. Have you wondered how a beautiful couple full of love for each other at a piont are both filing for divorce? Let me tell you why, its either because one of them was pretending, or the other can't take the pains therein or because they allow distractions into their union. There are no two ways to love, you either love some one completely and set them free, when you truly

  Lora Ajuzi and Chima Queen prompted this write up on sexual predators.  MY OWN STORY  During my degree days, I decided to stay with my Counsins both hefty men, one of them happened to own a shop at trade fair in lagos,so after school I stop at the shop to collect money for food stuff and go home on time to cook before they come back home. Most of us who boarded coaster buses then knew that there was a space in between the seats, so I jion my neighbour in the bus and sat close to the walk way in the bus while my neighbour sat close to the window side. Two guys sat at our back, the journey started, I wore a trousers and a top, so I noticed that the guy who sat directly at my back was using his fingers to play with my back close to my bumbum, I tried shifting to know excatly what was going on, it just continued. Luckily for me, my neighbour told the conductor that he wants to stop at the next bustop, so he alighted, so I decided to shift to the window side he occupied, fortunately the g

  Honestly, there is no reason why anyone should envy their neighbours, envy brings about unnecessary competitions and unholy wars. You are beautiful and am not, there is nothing I can do to change that, so why should I envy you? , I didn't create myself you know. You are from a very rich home, with so much inheritance kept for you, I am not, i can only work harder to achieve more and live my life, so why should I envy you? I don't even have a grain of sand left for me You cling to so many dubious activities to get to where you are now, i don't have such nerve to indulge in the things you did, so why should I envy you? You are married and blessed with kids, there is no cause to envy you, since its not something I can create or change, why should I envy you? we all have our time and space in this world You are highy placed and am not even in your class, yet I wonder why should I envy you? Life jas a way of distributing its resources and shares it to whom and how it so

  For peace sake, we tend to ignore what and how ill treated people display act of wickedness to us. Many a time, you either chose to keep quite, act like you never saw what they did and move on. Often times they keep showcasing their barbaric acts and threatening you to your face and waiting to take your breath. The very moment you react, they start to blame you, many won't know how much you have ignored, many times you kept quite to let peace regin and most finally when you chose to forget and let go. Wailers will always be there to ferment trouble, jobless fellow will always want to have a say and trouble makers acting like they are there as judges to settle issues. Sometimes when you decide to show people a glimpse of the pain and troubles they have caused you over the years, alot of people will start saying stuff and forget so soon how you have endured all along. Being quite doesn't mean one doesn't have something to say, ignoring stupid acts doesn't mean th