LIFE AND THE CHOICES WE MAKE

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Choice is well defined as an option, a decision an opportunity to choose or select something, simply put, an outcome of a decision.

Many a time we either make the rigth choice or the wrong choice, our choice depicts where we will be and where we wil not be, it either makes us or mares us.

At one point in time, we realise that we can't be where someone we admire is, why because of the intended and unintended choices we make, there by this does not allow us compare ourselves with others because a better of them has made a huge choice that our largest part can't contain, no matter how much we expand.. Yes its a choice.

A fellow is busy building his career, another is busy building her home, it might be similar but its difference is the power of choice, and that has decided where each one would be at a given time.

We make willful mistakes, yet we still get to the rigth place in life, yet another makes correct choices and rigth decision but ends up in the worse place you CANT imagine, oh, choice it is.

The projections in life has different views for us all, we figth, we pull through, again the word choice comes to play in our lives.

Most times it seems like we never choose them, many in the pains of life with what their choice played out for them.

Yet some can't forget the ecstacy of dreams their choice hsd brought them to the promised land.

Whichever choice we make and whatsoever it brought for us, its better we have the end in mind, which we can't see now but our choices will.

Vivsravine speaks ©


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