HOW MUCH VALUE?

When you are hungry for something, you will do all you can to get it and you won't take it for granted.

What is that somethings? To many of us, our somethings could be anything but for example, a man who longs to get married to a peaceful, loving and caring woman will do anything it takes to get her, most especially if he has been in a wrong relationship all his life, when he meets someone that posses these values, he won't take her for granted.

Again, a woman who is of age and has probably been battered over the years with abusive relationship and even possibly given up on any form of relationship so to say, probably meets someone who values her and will go any length to give her the best in life, such woman will forever worship that man.

So, it is to other needs and wants of life, we drool with, when we eventually get them, we treasure them like our lives depends on them. So sadly, many take so many valuable things for granted, maybe because they got them on the platter of gold and as such they don't care if anything happens to it.

Some married men who are loose and flirt around, are probably not valued at home by their wives and this might be caused by the fact that these women were not fully ready for marriage as at the time marriage came calling and so because they didn't wait to get married, marriage actually came to them and they accepted probably because of societal influence or parental advice. Such women will never value marriage , most especially when they have misunderstanding with their spouse they capitalise on the fact that they didn't enjoy their youthfulness and as such they misbehave in marriage.

Most men, get faustrated and go out and get concubines who will satisfy their sexual urge forgetting that they are married, inasmuch as I don't support infidelity in marriage but come to think of this, you can't have sex or loving making with someone who you are not happy with, its either rape or torture.

Its just like money too, when you didnt toil to get money, you spend it lavishly and wont value any penny you spent, because you feel you can always get more, your direction lies your treasure, when you put a value on something, you guard it, you respect it, you nurture it, you possibly. worship it...

Put a value on anything you are doing, better still put a percentage to it, it will help you know what excatly you are doing with people, the time you spend on irrelevant things and what gains or loss that you equate them with, this will help you value a lot and discard what is not needed.

Vivsravine speaks ©