DON'T MERRY AT PEOPLE'S PAIN

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 I saw a post where someone made a comment and said "try and sit at the other side and see how painful it is when you talk down on people.

It is so sad and never a welcoming situation when you feel you are always better of, you don't have an iota of what people go through and you just imagine or assume somethings can never happen to you. 

Sincerely, no one ever wishes for anything wrong or bad to happen to them but again, life always happens, a minute we merry the next second we are in pains, we find answers to our pligths and again we just wonder and weary why and how it all happened.

Life, isn't for us to determine or control rather we can only impact on our best possible ways and give it our all and even most times it is never enough, we cannot steer the affairs of life. 

Don't dare laugh or merry at any one's pains  because you feel you are better of, don't mock them because you are not in their positions, don't talk down on them, don't ignore them and don't make a story out of their pains because you feel you can't be in their place, life is one of the funniest paths to ride, so very unpredictable. 

The rich can't slove all their problems and so are the poor too, life happens to all, no matter how rosy or platable we want to paint the gains and erase the defects. 

There are places we don't want to to visit, the morgue, the cemetery, hospitals and the likes, many people we know are there, certainly, we had encounters with them but life took effect and they wished otherwise, some might see someone hale and hearty today and tomorrow we hear they are no more, again we see some people today and we expect they will be no more in some couple of weeks but surprisingly they are still living for years even in their pains while some are back to life. 

No one can predict or determine the length of time, how tomorrow would be and how life will take its turn, learn to be more human and giving, learn to be better than you were and extend the hand of fellowship to all, as life is truly fleeting. 



Vivsravine©

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