IT'S A FREE SPACE

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If your name wasn't mentioned in a post or tagged along, learn to remove your mind and eyes from people's write up.

Why cry or rack when a post is made, why bother when you aren't mentioned, you assume that the post is targeted at you because your conscience pricks you, your mind tells reminds you of your faults, rather than making ammends with yourself you pick offence on things that shouldn't even bother you.

Assumptions are not reality, if you see a post that makes you offended, ask some questions to your self, like am I being tagged, was my name mentioned, do I have any right to be offended by this post, what will I gain by calling out any innocent post and why should I even bother?

If you sincerely ask these questions, you will see reasons why so many posts are not targeted at you, the Internet harbours alot of people and when a post is made it has a goal to be achieved, if the post intreasts you react positively and not attack the writer and if it does not move to the next post and stop making a fuss over nothing.

We all cant be naive, introvert and shy to express our thoughts and opinions over issues, you can't control and stop the mindset of someone because you are entitled or feel anything written by a fellow is all about you.

Let's learn to approach issues with all diligence, you can't control the mind of anyone and so is it too that you can't stop them from expressing what they intend to do with their hands and mouths.

The world is a very large space for every one to be free despite lives issues, don't be the reason why someone goes into their shells because you fault their thoughts, don't allow yourself to be used by assumptions and presumptions of what you are scared of, don't be that snake that wants to live only in a domain because you feel threatened by someone's simple opinions, if you are not comfortable, please write your own.


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