YOU ARE NOT

You are not allowed to talk about marriage because you are not married.

You are not allowed to talk about children bearing and rearing because you don't have children of your own. 

You are not allowed to talk about driving because you don't have a car of your own or because you don't know how to drive. 

You are not allowed to talk about a business because you don't have a business of your own or because you don't have an idea about that business.

You are not to talk about life experience about traveling or those living abroad, why because you haven't even left your domain nor even seen the airport.

You are not allowed to talk about school, education and opportunities there in, just because you dropped out of school or because you never attended one.

You are not allowed to talk about politics, again because you are not a politician and you don't have any affiliation with it.

Oh you are not allow to about an illness just because you haven't experienced it or because you don't have any one affected.

This list is just endless, inasmuch the first hand info or experience about these so mentioned contributes more to this write up, yet we don't have to have all the experiences before we can comfortably talk about something and give a detailed explanation about it.

I now ask where is our common sence, certainly it is used for something, before we can start to look for advanced stuff and expertise in that field. 

The world, the Internet and life experiences of others has exposed us all to a much closer relationship with events and things happening and taking place live in our presence, we can capture events and even replay, to help analyse and give our take about it..

Stop making people feel Incapacitated because they don't have all the experiences and more so because they are not in position, yet they can air their opinions about something, even better than does who are fully involved.

Many people are always in my face when I talk about marriage values, challenges and solutions, they feel because am not married, I don't have the right to talk about it, sadly but the truth be told you don't know how much I have read, attended seminars, learnt from first hand experiences of people and also have a gift in this domain,. Let me clear you further I went for a marriage school and I bagged a certificate to that effect

Learn from people not shut them up, don't feel because you are in position makes others worthless or lack visibility to project into something, be open to learning even the most unserious person has something to offer.

Vivsravine speaks ©