THAT VERY MOMENTS SHE EXPRESSES HER DESIRE TO YOU

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Its funny how our orientations play out, most especially in Africa and how we view relationship with the opposite sex. 

We expect things to play out the same old fashioned way and yet expect things to work perfectly well. 

We have a very bad and porous way of relating with people and we still live with a mundane minds in a 21st century where a lot of things are evolving. 

Who says a lady can't approach a man if she has feelings for her.?

Who says its a crime for a lady to ask a man when they are getting married, if she truly wants to know his stand with her.?

Who says a lady can't support her man to pay her bride price, if they have a better orientation of selves? 

The list goes on and on, when a woman approaches a man for a relationship, they see her as possessing the following bad traits 

CHEAP
DESPERATE
PROMISCUOUS
THEY TAKE HER FOR GRANTED
THEY PLAY WITH HER EMOTIONS
THEY USE AND DUMP HER
THEY SCAM HER

Those things listed above happens alot of time, if not all happening at the same time, very bad indeed and worst still they go about saying all sorts if rubbish to tarnish her imagine, because they don't share her feelings as well.

Dear gullible men, when a lady approaches you for a relationship, respect that woman very much, it takes a lot of gut to do that, it's not our thing, see her as very expressive and transparent a fellow, many of us will never ever do that, if you don't see her in your future, tell her, you don't feel same and let her be.

On the other hand, if you share her feelings with her and it is reciprocated, do all you can to make it work, don't double date, if you check such ladies they value their relationship so well and they give it their all.

Let's learn to change our mindset about things that we feel it has just one way it must play out, until you try something, you won't ever know there are several ways of doing that thing.

Come to think of think, so many men are shy, many live in total assumptions and most of them don't have the courage and guts to approach a lady they truly like for some reasons like, inferiority complex, she is rich and she got it all, you will be amazed that these women are not what you view them as, when you eventually come closer, they are truly angels if you decide to be heaven to them, they will love your domain.

Appreciate what you have and give in to the love that finds you, certainly your life will become more blissful, more so when you take for granted what locates you joyfully, you will indeed regret it in your most wanted times. 


Vivsravine speaks © 

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