HARD LESSONS FOR BOTH MARRIED AND SINGLES

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TO THE MARRIED


Don't make your partner's life miserable just because you are unhappy.


Learn to express your doubts, worries, pains and fears to your partner alone and if you must tell some other person, let God know. 


Its sadden how private matters becomes public matter, it diminishes the pride of your partner, their integrity is tarnished and they find it most difficult to adjust. 


Work hand in hand with your partner, communicate, share, spend time and do things together to help foster your union. 


In all you do, don't ever compare your marriage with any one, don't  even dare, know this, there are differences on marriages but it is left for you to work out those differences.


To stay married, you must keep forgiving and learn to tolerate, its one of the pains of being married.


Learn to endure, sacrifice and give in your all to make your marriage work, its a war you must keep winning, because many are watching to see you fail.


Always, I mean always appreciate your partner for everything, the smallest and even the biggest of things, it goes a long way in your relationship. 


TO THE SINGLES.


Never believe that it is until you get married that is when you will experience total happiness, create happiness within you always , you are so responsible for your happiness.


Don't ask GOD to guide your steps, when you are not ready and willing to move a feet.


Doing it right in a wrong road is an aggressive spiritual act, seek wisdom to discern better 


Always remember you have a right, no matter how unreasonable,and stupid anyone sees it to be, JUST BE YOU, BE YOUR REAL SELF


Do something to make a difference, live a life of dignity and honor, it counts in the future,while you wait for your own partner, get busy and keep busy even when you are married. 


Sincerely, Love is a reflection of a persons inner personality, that is why people react different to love, don't push it, allow it come naturally. 


The butterfly was once a catapiller, don't let nobody pressurise you into anything, make your own choice with time. 


Vivsravine speaks © 


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