MY FACEBOOK INBOX LIFE

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In this place, a lot happens.

Funny

Crazy

Naughty

Intelligent

Educative

Dramatic

Soliciting

Insulting


The list is so endless, but the bottom line lies on one fact, you either chose to chat with them or you ignore their chats.


As a woman, you will always receive messages on a daily basis with various motives.


The funniest part is when you fail to chat them, most of these people would insult the life off you, like you owe them to reply or you had a quarrel with them before now.


How funny and crazy it is to see a total stranger call or place a video call to you without your consent, I just wonder where they got thier home training, most times when you disconnect these calls, you see them persisting and as such you are left with blocking the stupidity off them. 


Sadly , many whom you try to give a little bit of your time , instead of them to maximise their time and be more propelling, you rather hear things like :


I want to marry you

Send me a copy of your recent pictures

I will send you some money if you just show me your boobs

What are you wearing now? 

Where are you now and chatting from? 

Are you married? 

How old are you? 

What do you do for a living? 

Do you live alone? 


Some of these questions can be very annoying most especially to a total stranger, its always best to allow things flow and over a period of time, if your chat partner values you enough, she would give you those details willingly. 


More so, when you refuse to comply and give them this first hand information, they come up with things like


You act like a student 

You are so immature 

No wonder you are like this 

Grow up and enjoy life 


Most annoyingly, they are so impatient, so unassuming and lacks virtue, these set of people just want these information from you easily and quick to indulge evil and snooze off  to the next victim. 


Any true person who has your interest in mind who is meeting you online, would be very straigth and wait for you to talk and reciprocate the gesture of knowing a stranger. 


When people come into your inbox to create a fussy drama, just block them, mute them or delete them for peace sake. 


Your inbox is like your private sanctuary, don't allow anyone come there to harass or cajole you, do them the honour of showing them the door without offending them. 

Block the nonsence out of them. 

Vivsravine speaks ©



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