YOU ARE YOUR OWN CHOICE

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I have truly realised that there are choices you make that either makes you or mares you, sincerely that singular choice you make can really do so much harm to you or bless you and also affect those around you most negatively or positively.

Now, take a check in your life and see the regrets you wished you never made, the choices you made are almost the reasons why you can truly say there are some choice you wished you never made.

THE CHOICE OF A SPOUSE..

The person you welcome into your life can positively or negatively affect your life, there are some people who come into your life and are a blessing or as a lesson, when it comes to the choice of a life partner, its immensely intensional to open your eyes and ask your self some vital questions and don't allow your feelings over take your sence of reasoning.

Some one with a very bad character for instance will not just affect your life negatively but also affect the peace with your immediate family, these set of people are perpetual trouble makers and instead of being a happiness to you they cause pain and make you pray it never should have happened, if you don't chose rigth. 

Yet there are some partners that will come into your life and that of your family, you will only record peace and progress, connections and reconciliations, open your eyes to your choice, there is more to the pleasures in a choice, the regrets are indeed very unbearable. 

THE CHOICE OF A CAREER PATH

Many are faustrated in the work they do, many are switching from one career path to another, many don't like what they do, but they are still indulged in it, they rather remain there and complain than to leave and find peace.

The choices we make when it comes to what we do for a living matters too, it will either make you or mare you.

I have seen some who work in factories and somehow lost a part of their bodies, others built these factories and have people work for them, yet it all narrows down to the power of choice, which affects us directly and even your families too.

THE CHOICE OF DIRECTION

To discern is always a big deal if you fail to open your eyes and seek wisdom there are opportunities we saw and never indulged yet we regret them now, while they were some we never saw at all, yet we wished we did

I know of a man who was exposed to buying a land way back, rather he chose not to buy the land in the city and preferred to buy a land in his home town, till date he never got any, rather he bought a car and few years after he sold the car at a give away price after he has worked and worked on the car, finally he is still paying rent till date in town.

Believe me. We are the choices we make, some of these choice if not made in wisdom leaves us to wonder and wallow in regrets while some makes us happy in the end. 

Our choice is what we hold, the blessing or the pain we bear, strive to make your story blissful. 

You are your own choice. 

Vivsravine speaks © 

Comments

  1. Unknown22 September 2020 at 06:43

    Nice one. Do you screenplay stories?

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  2. Vivsravine22 September 2020 at 08:12

    No i don't...
    Maybe I could try..
    Hola me on Facebook on oparah ahunna vivian.. Many cheers

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