SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

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The worth of a thing shouldn't be attached to a condition before you can value that thing, we hear lots of people saying l must test before marriage, so as to be sure of what am going for, sadly, we still record high rates of divorce even after the so called testing.

So many will frown as this write up, but let's call a spade a spade, why do we still record high rates of divorce most recently even after dating and indulging in premarital sex and the likes?

There is a reason why sex is only meant for married couple, there is a reason why this bounding is for procreation and pleasure in marriage, let's stop deciding for God.

I ask again, is that does who divorce didn't indulge in sex before marriage and yet they couldn't stay as a couple, I can put this to you, 80% of divorce rate is due to infidelity, poor sexual bounding and the likes.  back to my initial question, must we test before marriage? 

Every one has one reason or objections about this topic but it goes down to a fact that there is more to dating than sex. Some dated and courted for years, indulged in sex, got married and divorced over a short time together, why? 

Many built their relationships on sexual foundations and that alone can't sustain a union. 

The price of value you put into something makes it workable or not, you can't continue going on  testing for something valuable without buying, there must be a level of commitment before you are allowed to test and buy. 

Yet, we have seen those who still engaged in premarital sex before marriage waxing strong in marriage, different strokes for us all, but the dangers associated in premarital sex is high and definatly the end result isn't nice hence the need to wait for it, don't thwart the hand of God concerning testing your partner in sex before marriage to see if she could have kids and to see if he can perform on bed, there is more to relationship than sex. 

Your opinions are welcomed, I just shared my thoughts on this topic

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