PITFALLS IN MARRIAGE

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Don't ever be in a hurry to marry, never be. 

Don't be pressured by any one, no matter what is involved. 

Don't be inclined to materialistic things. 

Be sure of the character traits of the person you intend to live with. 

Don't leave all finances decision to your partner, its takes the responsibility of all. 

Appreciation is a strong catalyst to propel life into partner, they need it. 

Family background is a key factor to look out for before taking decision of marriage. 

People with complicated life style, hmm, its so pathetic with partners who can't deal with bad behaviors. 

Date and marry someone with high level of understanding, what I mean by this is some one who truly understands you without even talking to you. 

There are various types of traditions, be very clear about them before you take the decision to marry someone, the consequences are grave. 

Never ever, I repeat never compete or compare with your partner and again don't ever compare your relationship with others. 

Sincerity, honesty and transparency are the key truths that holds a relationship even in your absence if your partner can't stand for you in or out of your presence then you have no business in that relationship. 

Failure to discuss everything before marriage brings lots of marital fuss and causes lots of clause, don't be a victim 

Pray, watch, wait, study, test, very well before you decide to marry someone, there is more to the things we don't see before marriage. 

Hearsay, gossip and backlashing are one of the quickest way to pull down any marriage, discuss with your partner alone learn to aviod a third party into your own home. 

Wait to get married fully and duly before you live with your partner, this singular acts saves and sloves lots of marital defects. 

If you know you can't learn to stay married, don't get married in the first place because marriage is the headquarters of offences from your partner

Hear this, if you know you are highly indecisive as a person, please don't go into marriage, there is a spirit with taking possible decisions that will either make your marriage or mare your marriage.

Vivsravine speaks © 

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