THE FIVE YEAR GOAL LADY

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Hmmm, let me be nice today yet I will still say that core truth, I am so pissed by how most ladies run their lives and these makes most men label we all the same.

There was a recent video of a couple who came on social media to disclose to us what transpired in their date recently, the guy asked the lady a very simple question, where do you see your self in the next five years and the lady in her stupidity got offended and invariably lost out in the future of that relationship by that singular act.

Dear ladies, its high time we tell ourselves the truth and also live to project what we want from these men, there is more to relationship than what we ever want.

The question from this young man is the most intelligent question I can guarantee you from someone who wants to see you in his future, a man who just want to sleep with you or who doesn't see you in his future wont  even ask you these crucial questions like this

Rather, aunty fives years plan, went ahead to reply our good brother with these reply " am I on a date or an interview" finally she asked him in return "what is your retirement plan? Oh dear sister, it was just a simple question you would have answered intelligently and even send in your five year proposal to him and make him marvel.

I am going to be brutal with my thoughts now, sisters, some women are classical ITOBORIBO with depleted sence, we are our own big probelm. 

Some attitude we display makes me wonder who birth and breed most of us, even recently the way we openly talk loosely make you wonder where the fellow is coming from. 

Beauty has so eaten into our heads that we forget the future before us, the most trending talks on Erica of BBN is another one, which can be likened to this act. We are easily carried away by our beauty that we feel we are on top of the world and we fail to learn and take corrections. 

Beauty alone doesn't keep a man and that is why you see a lot happens in marriage relationship, man cling to women who will respect them,give them peace and still be the sexy diva to adore, be all to your man. 

Therefore its high time these gullible ladies sell their Brazilian hairs and human hairs and get working brains

Its time they stop wearing make ups and lay a solid foundation in their future, work for your money and have a retirement plan for yourself. 

And its time they realise that there is more to a relationship than what they want, marriage relationships is work  real work and if you are not ready for it, don't even date, because you dating might lead to marriage someday. 

Finally. Let's stop using social media to display our ignorance and stupidity, if you are not comfortable about something with your partner, seek help and understand your stand better. 

Vivsravine speaks © 

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