THE CRAZY REAL COUPLE

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Before we get married there are lots of things we really long to do with our partners, we truly want to be crazily in love. 


We crave to be so happy in love that we become inseparable, we want to be the envy of many  the talk of the town and the mentor to aspiring couples, an inspiration to our generation. 

When you are so much in love there are places you should really consider when you want express your love for each other by paying a visit to such places like :

The Orphanage: really, to check if you are with the rigth person going to the Orphanage should be one key place you both can spend time with, it helps to showcase how your partner values life and how generous and compassionate they can be.

The Beach:this one of the favourite place  for couples to get away and express their love for nature and appreciate each other with the warmth of the sea, this place is considered the best place so far when love must be expressed. 

Trips: love birds loves to journey together even if they don't have a predetermined destination, take out time to travel together, feel the air, appreciate nature, see places and create memories for your unborn children. 

Eat out : the goal is to explore each other and bring out the best in your relationship, learn to sit out and eat together, select a day weekly when you both must sit out and have something nice outside without cooking at home this helps to spice up your relationship and make you both long for a next time. 

Club:this might not be everybody's thing but once in a while go chilling and dancing in such a place at least get to know what they do there so that friends won't influence you with it, enjoy the moment there in and come back feeling good. 

Foundation:if in your life time you are blessed don't forget others as a couple, create something that will impact the life of others and be thankful to God for a good home, there are various types of foundations you can create to impact lives, find it, it helps you both live for something other than marriage. 

Get aways : there are various get away attractions in the world depending on your location, plan a vacation outside your domain, enjoy the wife /husband of your youth and visit places that makes you glued to your partner. 

Spontaneous actions :don't be rigid with your partner, it takes two beautiful souls to explore a world of possibilities, entangle in craziness and do unimaginable things together in love, it takes only you two to do those things we can't say here. 

Mentor:every successful marriage has a mentor they look up to, they could be virtual or pratical, these people has stood the taste of time and they are living examples to many who hope to be like them, find one if you don't have. 

Prayers:no matter your belief system  prayer is key in any home that truly wants to succeed in marriage, truly marriage relationships has its own ups and downs and prayers can't be underestimated, make sure your partner is inclined to this vital piont. 

Empathy and compassion :since we are prone to mistakes and offences, partners must show compassion to life and empathy to one another, it goes to show how much we value our neighbours and the world at large.

Find your spot on in these enlisted pionts and spice up your relationship for a greater goal.

Vivsravine speaks © 

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