ARE YOU READY TO ACCEPT THE INEVITABLE RESPONSIBILITY

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THE LADY SAYS.. I love my boo  he is a good man, he takes adequate care of my needs and loves me rigth.

THE GUY SAYS... Oh, she is loving and supportive, she compliments me.

THE LADY SAYS... I cant wait to be his wife

THE GUY SAYS.. I will make her my wife

The list is endless and unlimited to count but the big question is that a lot of people forget to sit down and understand that a lot comes with marriage, which are just inevitable.

Dear ladies, before you say " I DO"

BEA..

Are you ready to lose your shape, get fat huh, maybe too have a Sagging breast?

Are you ready to endure the pains of pregnancy and groom kids?

Are you ready to work not for yourself but for your family

Are you ready to be accountable to your spouse and family

Are you ready to take up responsibility that comes up during this period

Are ready to bear the pains and joys that must come too.

Are you ready to give yourself in  knowing that your hubby is your first priority, then ur kids, career and others follow.

Are you ready to handle unforseen circumstances and bring in your all to it.

Are you aware that shits happens in marriage and that changes occurs in all aspect

Are you ready to accept the fact that marriage is a puzzle you have to live all your life solving and working it out.

TO GUYS

DEAR BOO,

Are you aware that the full test of a man isn't about donating your sperm to make babies?

Are you aware that you are the sole Head and the caretaker the full responsibility undertaker?

Are you also  aware that you must be financially, physically, physiologically, spiritually balanced to manage a woman and even have a family?.

Are you aware you must be accountable to your spouse, always there, responsible and articulated to handle issues.?

Are you aware you must sacrifice a lot, to make sure others are happy, even at your own detriment.?

Marriage is sweet like we heard, yet its bitter based on the experiences we see around, because those who are involved wont' tell you, but you will see.

The big questions remains ARE YOU READY????

It does not end in dating, engagement, wedding  and living together, marriage is a new world of responsibilities.. That might change you for life.

Ahudiya are you ready??? 

In Christ alone my hope is found..


Vivsravine speaks ©


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