THE NEGLECTED THINGS THAT TEARS RELATIONSHIP APART

 

No one will claim ignorant about the recent breaks, separation and divorce in relationship and marriages, despite the number of years they have shared in love. 

Below are some of the enlisted issues, we easily neglect yet they are they major causes of heartbreaks and pain. 

NAGGING :This singular issue has led lots of woman out of their matrimonial homes, many of them feel they best way they can communicate with their partners is by shouting continuously and making a show of shame. 

UNFORGIVENESS :No one is without sins, yet we are wired to always offend each other, intentionally or unintentionally, yet many find it so difficult to forgive their partners and the best way they can resolve issues is to separate there of. 

UNRESOLVED ISSUES : There is no where in the world without a probelm and as such we are all out to find solutions to our problems, but in most cases many relationships would rather remain quite and figth cold wars than to sit down and resolve their issues. 

LACK OF COMMUNICATION :Every one is so busy with money, work and personal issues that we fail to effectively and efficiently communicate with our partners, infact the phone has taken the place of bonding and expressing our love to our partners. 

NOT PAYING ATTENSION : truthfully, it hurts when you long for a listening ear and all you get is someone rushing out on you, you feel highy neglected. 

BEING SECRETIVE : I wonder why you should be in a working relationship and all you do is to horde information and important issues from your spouse, this one of the many reasons when being caught and divorce is inevitable. 

PRIDE AND EGO:" I am this and that", "I can't take that", "does he know who I am" , "my mother is highy connected" , " am from a very rich family, he is just a pauper" , these words alone is enough reason to make your partner feel inferior and he or she would seek for a separation. 

LACK OF UNDERSTANDING : We are so impatient to wait and learn how to understand our partners, most times its all about us and we fail to be very patient with them and hence we find us figthing over everything. 

LACK OF APPRECIATION : As little as "thank you" many people in relationships don't know how to say it to their partners, they lack empathy and also they are so never appreciating no matter how little or big a gesture comes to them. 

SEXTUAL ISSUES : They fail to discuss their sex life, they fail to see a doctor, they fail to play together and get to bond, yet they want super sex life, well we know they result, many eventually would start cheating and become vulnerable and before you know it, the relationship becomes a shadow of the past. 

ASSUMPTIONS AND UNDERESTIMATION: No matter what happens, assumptions are not realities untill proven, this singular act has broken homes and caused havoc. 

Many couples dare and underestimate their partners and the event that follows it isn't palatable. 

3RD PARTY INTERFERENCE : They issue of hearsay, family and friends involvement in matters concerning couples has led to lots of logger heads, many a time they say different things and cause long standing issues in their lives. 

Please check these neglects and work on your relationship. 

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