YOU ARE NOT IN THEIR FUTURE

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If you are not in his future they can't function in your life. 

If they want you in their future they will do whatsoever it takes to keep you there. 

You see those ones who don't want you in their future, they are full of laws, full of excuses and most annoyingly they are habitual time wasters

They will never lift a finger to help you no matter how good or urgent it could be, the ghosts always expect you to check up on them and give them your time, selfish beings. 

What I wonder about men and women who indulge in this attitude is that, on the long run they will eventually make big mistakes and live the rest of their lives in absolute regrets and are always looking for who to talk to.

Open your eyes to see, the signs are always there, they don't pretend, they act their real self because they simply know what they are doing with you..

They are always quick to take sides and act like all is well between you two but funny how these things play out..

They very moment they realise that the games they are playing with you is up, you will hear them saying things like this :

* I was only taking my time with you.
*I was testing you to know the stuff you are made of
* I had bad relationship in the past, so I need to be sure about you
* I wanted the best for you and that was why I didn't come out plain with you
*Can I get another time with you to prove to you am here to stay.

How interesting, these people could be, they try to play god in your life and keep you suspended and still want to take your sanity and peace, but when you refute them, they feel real bad but they forget how they have treated you all along.

Recall also, they have no sense of commitment to you and most annoyingly they take you as an option, funny enough, when their games packs up, they come looking for you and wants a piece of the cake.

Give them all the space in the world, it hurts them like sulphur,, make them insignificant and infact tag them "" NEVER EXISTED "" and when they come around as usual, give them cold shivers play their cards for them and give them a wild chase, they will respect yoo and value the next person they will ever meet by defining their mission.

Vivsravine speaks © 



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