DON'T TAKE HER FOR GRANTED

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Many are busy chasing stars that are far away from them while they trample upon the diamonds under their feet, but alas they will find those diamonds unaccessible when some other persons buys the ground they trampled on and they will be left with stones to manage for the rest of their lives.

These are the exemples of taking for granted the blessings within your reach and then chase on what is not accessible to you.

You want the highs and glories, then tomorrow you will start complaining about making a mistake and managing your regrets.

We are carried away by vain glory, the moods and the glamour, all because we want to be reckoned with at the detriment of our future.

You take the diamonds for granted because they are below you and you feel you can always access them, while you are busy looking for a ladder and possibly a jet to reach to the stars.

Take a hold about your future, the stars are good too but can you tell yourself the truth, do you know that diamonds are worth more than the stars, they are rare, the shine and they are very expensive too, but very accessible if you have the worth to try and if you make yourself available.

When eventually you lose your diamond when pursing the stars you never accessed, you are forced to take the stones and live with it, then your life will become an object of pain and regerts.

Stop going for what is not coming for you.
Stop creating a niche of what does not see you.
Stop sowing on what you can't reap and benefit
Stop hurting your future, even if you have the stars, you won't be able to tell your sad ordeals,and then you become a shadow of yourself.

Go to where you are been accepted, loved and treasured, go to a place where you are being longed for, love is a reciprocal effect, it shows forth and you are happy within. 

Love is a fuel
Love is an action
Love is a verb

Vivsravine speaks ©

Comments

  1. Unknown9 July 2020 at 02:14

    Honestly ,I've tried countless times but it's not working

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    1. Vivsravine28 July 2020 at 05:34

      Oh mine.. Private chat me on my Facebook page.. Oparah Vivian Ahunna.. Thnks

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