MIND YOUR BUSINESS, IT HEALS YOU FASTER

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What is holding you from achieving your goals
Was happening, why are the kids not coming
Why are you not married till now.
Are you sure you have not damaged your womb
You need to go home, your village people are on your case. 

Your mates are building houses and buying new cars and owning sweet asset.
Your family history is really bad and very bad
Why haven't you gotten a breakthrough with all your church and good character.

You will agree with me that the list is endless and mostly annoying, can't we just learn to mind your business and let people be for goodness sake.

Learn to mind your business in the life of people, no matter who they are to you, the best you could do for them is to pray for them, if you truly care.

Better still find solutions to their problems and involve them when necessary and they only time you are permitted to talk to someone about their probelm is when you have answers to their probelm , correct them in love and don't judge them.

Stop castigating people, that you feel you are better than them is no licence to spoil their names or drag them where you deem fit learn to let people be. 

And if you know you don't have a good manner of approach, find someone whom will help you pass your advice across.

Really, learn to mind your business, its very important to your health as you are not void of probelm too. Stay away from people's personal issues if they don't call your artension please stop being their satellite distributor and monitoring mirror. 

You have your own personal problems to deal with, sort your probelms one by one, by the time you are done, you won't have the time to poke into their issues.

Aunty mind your business
Brother face your life
Enough is happening in your life already so learn to keep your head high and mind your business.

Vivsravine speaks © 

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