YOUR RIDE OR DIE

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If we are not on the same page, then we can't continue with our story. 


No matter how actively busy he is, a man who needs you as his queen will also be busy pursuing you at the same time because a king knows what you are worth.


If he doesn't protects and provides for you, 

Girl, you are not his choice, if she doesn't care and watches over the littlest details about you, man, you are not her choice


Dear sisters, be attracted to his actions not his words, ignore 99% of what he says but pay attension to what he does, to be sure about him, men are sweet talkers, but real men are action doers.


Dear brothers, women are attracted by what they see, if she isn't inclined to you, forget it you are wasting your time with her, yes, women are moved by what they hear but these days they go to where they are comfortable.


Still on, if a man doesn't go through anything with you, he wont appreciate you, if he doesn't build with you, hmm, you are sure a liability, make sure you are an asset before you say yes to him, when a man truly wants you, how he treats his mother is sure how he will treat you. 


Some times we meet people who are too beautiful to resist yet so hard to chose, this happens because we are emotionally attached to them first before looking out for the substance in them. 


No relationship is ultimately crisis free, to win a soul you have to feel their hearts, so I ask you when was? 


When was the last time you smiled from the heart to feel another's heart?


When was the last time you truly laughed and shared it with another soul?


When was the last time you made someone happy and they felt it so dearly,?


When was the last time you gave a sincere hug & never want to let go?


When was the last time you loved someone and you want it to remain so?


When was the last time you forgave a friend truly?


When was the last time you affected a life positively?


Relationship has its own wars and flaws but make sure you find someone who understands your love language no matter what you speak, find that one person who is ready to go the extra mile with you, your ride or die, it makes life worth living knowing you have this one person who is a god to you and an idol to you to reference.


If its isn't happening naturally, then you are pushing hard and that is not worth it, a sweet and working relationship make it effortlessly inclined even in the midst of challenges but if you find yourself enforcing and pushing in your relationship, please quit, you are more than enough to someone who needs you 


Vivsravine speaks 





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