MARITAL BOTTLE UP

You wonder why marriage? 

There is a lot that happens in marriage that most couple bottle up and you can only see after a long period of time these issues are enlisted below. 

VIOLENCE

Domestic violence, emotional  violence and even physiological violence happens in most homes and so many couple with hold it from the public, it only becomes known when it's out of hand to manage. 

CHARACTER ISSUES

Again, in most relationships, character is of great concern, managing another's character is a big deal, for a spouse who doesn't like keeping out late meets a partner who is a pro in late nigth these two would defiantly have issues in marriage and most times they bottle up such issues. 

Others are so good at keeping malice and most times they are mad at each other but chose not to argue or talk about their issues. 

CHILD MISBEHAVIOR

So many couple allow their children to come in between them, most times children could be very funny in acts and reasoning you see one of the parents supporting the misbehaviour of the child, rather than correcting or spanking the child, they ignore or spoil the child the more  hence such attitude brings about rancor in most homes. 

FAMILY SECRET

There is no living family without a secret, every home has a secret they both shared before or during the relationship, its either something they go to the grave with or they open up to in current realities of life. 

PERSONAL ISSUES

We all got one battle we are facing personally that somehow affects our relationship, it could be mentally, health wise, career, financially, physiologically and otherwise.

These issues, can't be side lined, it can either make nor mare your relationship based on how well we react or treat them.

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