WHEN NEXT YOU MEET A SINGLE MUM

Its now a societal norm that lingers everywhere, what comes to mind when you meet one is that she was stupid enough to give in to unwanted pregnancy.

Oh, stop and pause, there are so many reasons why we see them around with so many justified answers.

Domestic violence
Divorce or seperation
Rape
Independence
Choice
Death of spouse
Family rejection
Unsettled marital issues

When next you meet a single mum, the least you can do is to support them in the best way you can, don't judge her because little do you know about her plight.

So many women would have aborted such beautiful children, others would rather give birth to them and abandon them, but to many who chose to take care of these angels alone, they need our support because it isn't easy to train a child single handedly.

Shout out to all the good mothers , single mums especially, we love you and appreciate all you do, no wonder the saying goes thus "train a woman and train a nation"

It isn't any easy task to parent children even as a couple let alone as a single mom or dad, it takes lots of grit, grace and will to over come and be the best you can be in a world full of competition.

We should learn to lend a helping hand, support in our own little ways and even sponsor them if we have the means to assist a child or the single parent involved in the raising of a child, it helps to reduce the burden and also tell them, they aren't alone in the struggles of life.

Dear single mom, no matter the reason why you are a single mom, the world migth troll and spit fire and even treat you with spite, let the joy of your child or children over take the vices they throw at you, keep loving and living for your children, some day soon, the rewards would come in benefits you can't comprehend, stay alof all odds.

Vivsravine speaks