YOU HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM WHEN

 

There are some traits that shows you have low self esteem when you exhibit these attitudes. .

Anytime you maltreat other people who are either below you or even above you, then it could be said that you have a low esteem , its expected that we learn how to treat others better and nicely, so that we can get good recommendation from them.

Whenever you fail to use these basic languages (please, thank you and sorry) to seek, appeal and relate to the people around you than you really have a very low self esteem and because you fail to imply them you would generally have issues with people you come in contact with.

You wonder why many people hate others, is simply because they don't love themselves and when you don't love yourself, you have a low esteem, which in turns relates with how you treat others around you.

Fault finders are amongst those with low self esteem, they are never pleasing, never do wells and they are so quick to cajole, instigate, bully, and insult people at the slightest provocations.

Again, people who never accepts corrections and admonishments, persons who feel they are too intelligent to make a mistake, can also be classified in this category of low self esteem, no one is an island of knowledge, there for you must relearn, unlearn and keep learning to be better.

If you have an unforgiving spirit then you are also part of this classification,,  there is a clear indication that we must relate with people on a daily basis and as such we must be offended in one way or the other, therefore finding it easy to forgive people helps us relate well with them and also places us with a relatable esteem, but when we fail to forgive them because of what they do to us then, we inconcate the realities of low self esteem.

Search through these downtimes and make tangible ammendments that will help Foster good rapport with people and also better your self esteem.

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