WOES OF UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

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If there is anything less than making your partner happier then you don't need to be in that relationship.

You would succeed in hurting yourself and then adding sore to your pain you are in already.

Any relationship worth having won't be easy to come by but defiantly those who really want to be in your life would always be there for you

Forcing your way through any relationship isn't the best approach,, you would beg till the very end and be faustrated out eventually.

Its better to have a reciprocated relationship,, its said to be healthy and acceptable, you might not get all you want but at least you are contended and happy.

A one sided relationships is very unhealthy and causes lots of pains and regrets,  be bold enough to walk out, stay abreast and be hopeful.

Sincerely, its better to remain single and healthy than to he in a toxic relationship and gloomy, life is short to cut terms with what it should have been.

Respect yourself enough to leave honourably, don't allow anyone take your loving them for granted and moreso don't allow them treat you like trash, we all deserve better.

Everyone admires a beautiful loving relationship and also no one likes a toxic one at that, this the reality of our time, even failure is a choice. So learn to chose and make good choices.

Your choice will either make you or mare you, the woes of unhealthy relationships are so numerous to count and they are never palatable. Help yourself to stay away from vices that affects your mental healthy,emotional balance and generall well-being.

Vivsravine speaks


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