DESPERATION IN

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The word "desperation" comes in various sceneries in life's challenges and pursuits.

Desperation can be aligned in marriage  most especially when someone has waited for long to get married but due to life's situation he or she becomes too anxious to get married, such people then becomes desperate, as whosoever comes their way at that time becomes their partner and because they didn't take out time to discuss and find out more about their partners they fall into big probelms in marriage.

Money, they say is the root of all evil, yet every one can't do without money, the piont is that when you allow money control you then you become desperate to get money by all means and when you indulge you get yourself in bigger trouble.

Having a well paying job is good but don't allow faustration and desperation ruin you, when you don't have a job you become stressed and that could shortens your life span, learn to take this to heart, that what ever you can't control is at that time bigger than you.

Competing and comparing is another form of desperation, the bottom line is that those who do such things never ends well, needless indulging, learn to be yourself develop your mind and strive for greatness.

Desperation also comes in the aspect of some couples who are looking for children, the sad stories are endless and the regrets are really unbearable, it's better to wait than to remain in perpetual pain for a life time.

In all the aspects so mentioned, desperation is clearly shown and even more take out time to see thru when they come, it could be in s business deal also  just do the needful by setting your mind straigth and keeping your thoughts open.

Vivsravine speaks



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