NO MANUAL FOR MARRIAGE

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We learn as the journey goes and from people's experiences yet you don't compare yours with others.

It starts with beautiful moments, so unending but when the phase of turbulence comes you face it like your lives depends on it.

The crux of marriage is sacrifice, tolerance, commitment and uncertainties, be ready to face the fears, worries and anxieties that comes with it

Marriage they say is for better for worse, in sickness and in health, but marriage is more beyond feelings, as Iove as its foundation yet there is more to it than we see around today.

The realities are always there, the challenges never hides and the joy is mostly exposed if its there, yet marriage could form you to be a better person or worse.

Every marriage has its own unique benefits of wars, yet its very paramount you treat yours with all sence of respect, mutual love and tolerance, the very moment when you wished your marriage is like some others person's own, then you enter into the realm of unforgettable regert.

There are so many attribute to a successful marriage, which includes, love, peace, respect, submission, self control, charity, forgiveness, faithfulness, honesty, transparency, trust, perseverance, sacrifice and above all the fear of God.

The list is so endless yet we can't limit the manual for marriage to these, there is so much to put into a marriage to make it successful and they are not written on templates but rather in our minds.

Chose to spice up your marriage, make exceptional dishes, visit beautiful places together, go for a vacation away from home, pray together, find each other in all beautiful things around, exchange gifts, tolerate more ans seek to better your partner always, make it a piont of duty that happiness of your partner is your sole responsibility.

Vivsravine speaks


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