DEAR LADIES, DONT MARRY

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Do not marry a man you can't respect its easy to get married but very hard to stay married, attraction goes beyond the mind, it entails all forms of attitude. 


The greatest need of a man isnt food or sex, RESPECT it is, if you know you can't offer it freely, please stay away from marriage. 


Treat him with dignity, honour him with love, cuddle him with care, appreciate his efforts, caress him with prayers, submit in humility.


Don't be a failure in your marriage, many are waiting to hop in and take your place, indulge in your marriage, don't be a stranger in your home because you find it difficult to tolerate and manage your home. 


Date him again. Fall on him like a baby, sleep on his chest like it's your pillow, stop being too busy to even notice his presence, treat him like a king and watch him pull through for you.


Many ladies forget so easily and behave like a grandma in their homes, they fail to look good for their partners, they are carried away with work and house chores, they become too bossy and many times becomes too comfortable that no other woman would be attracted to her man.


Respect and loyalty is a man's major attraction, its sad to know that many wives take this for granted and this had been one of the leading cause of divorce in recent times.


Dear ladies, give him maximum peace, submit in love and try your best to keep the spark of attraction always and watch him adore you like his life depends on it.


If you fail to keep your home, there is always a woman on the stand by waiting to earn all the rewards and keep your man to herself. 


Vivsravine speaks 

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