WHY BOARDING SCHOOL?

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How do you pay so much and eventually lose your wards, the recent deaths recorded in most boarding school across the country has indeed become and issue of concern to parents and wards. 


This becoming so annoyingly pathetic, what kind of repeated pain is this? 


Its so disheartening and devastating, enough of the  pain inflicted already.


What excatly are the benefits of going to the boarding school apart from allowing them stay away from home and learn, then you pay heavily and get this kind of acidic result.


Please, its high time we allow our children stay with us for sanity sake, if they still have to attend boarding school let it be in their senior secondary stage at least they are almost at their adults stage where they can easily diffrenciate things and be able to discern well without being bullied or hijacked in fear of speaking up.


The things we hear is nothing cut short from

Bullying 

Negligence 

Starvation 

Sever punishments 

Fear of the unknown, amongst all other negative vices 


Many children who didn't attend boarding school also did well in school, was the hype about boarding school anyways?


This kind of stories is so painful to recall and hence bring perpetual regrets which can't be erased.


Often times its adviced to visit them without telling the school masters and hear from your children, again take and pay close attension to what they do and how they react, if they ever open up to tell you to take them away from the school or they refuse to go back to that school don't ever neglect the red flag.


I actually don't know the benefits therein but we must not forget the facts that no one can take better care of your wards apart from you, no one can love them better than you do, so its better to learn their body language and help them heal from situations they can't explain just because you desire they school outside your domain.

Vivsravine speaks 

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