NOW THAT YOU KILLED HIM

 

All Social media handles pushed the news about a woman who killed her cheating husband, simply because she found out that he impregnated a lady, she went ahead to drug him and finally used hot iron to render him dead. 

We also learnt that they recently came back from a vacation in dubai and as such he expressed his love to her and her kids,the pictures they shared signified so much love and care but alas we saw what anger implanted. 

Anger they say beget nothing but pains and perpetually sadness and ever lasting regerts if not retraced, it's so sad that she didn't even give him the chance to explain himself,let alone apologise and make ammends if possible. 

We often say that men are polygamous in nature, having said that and also know that, its not in your place to take the law in your hands and say because you are married to him, you can kill him if he ever misbehaves, alot is happening in homes yet we all need to seek for wisdom and redirection always. 

Its always adviced to walk away, if you can't cope with a cheating partner, at least for your own sanity and wellbeing, it's not enough to remain there with so much pains and regerts and eventually put yourself in a position that you will regret for life. 

Marriage isn't everything, that society expects you to remain in a cheating relationship you can't cope with, its best you own your life and take charge of it, you can still achieve more without being married too. 

Did you know you can start afresh, no matter how old you are, how many kids you have got and all the challenges you places before your self, you can begin again and find your self in other aspect of life, trust me, if you remain true to yourself true love can still find you. 

I watched the video over and over again of the dead man and so many thoughts ran through my mind, he certainly will have his regrets where ever he is now in space, his wife and the supposedly lady he impregnated and his family and friends alike. 

Again, newton's law of motion came to my mind, the 3rd law precisely "to every action there is an equal and opposite reaction" now the dead is gone and not coming back, the lady he impregnated is going to be a single mother, his children will suffer either as orphans or be physiological traumatised all their life, his family won't forgive his wife and what of his friends too. 

Now back to his wife, I wonder what gains she will enjoy now that he is dead? Nothing but out rigth regerts and perpetual worries, she has automatically become a widow who is now stigmatised for killing her husband and certainly society won't let her go scot-free, she either bargains life imprisonment or she is sentenced to death too, at this point what is her gain for killing her husband? 

She has no freedom of her own anymore, she won't be able to watch and nurture her children grow and I can imagine the hate they will infuse on her for killing their dad, so sad but true, her children will greatly suffer the loss of a dead father and an imprisoned mother or even dead mother depending on what the law pronounces. 

At this point, the family will take over his inheritance because his wife has no powers and access to his assets again and I can imagine what outcomes this projects on the children's future. 

Know this, that the family and children will be stigmatised for an act they didn't commit, people will easily point and make reference to them based on what happened in their family. 

Accept this inevitable truth, anger has nothing to offer but regrets and pains, it brings about alot of "had I know"  its always best to walk away from anything that stands against our peace of mind at any point at least to seek direction before taking any decision. 

Every decision we make in life is subjected to two things, it either makes us or mars us, but it's our choice to make because we have the power, the time and the will to make them happen for our good or for our bad.

Pained, now that she has succeeded in killing him, how would she feel if someone killed her own brother because he cheated, how would she feel if someone killed her son because he cheated, again how would she feel if the husband has killed her because she cheated, the question is left for her alone to answer, am certain that where ever she is now, she is lounging in perpetual regerts. 

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