SAD REALITY ABOUT MARRIAGE

 

Alot happens in life and certainly everyone has a story they either share or keep to them selves for the rest of their lives.

That you are in a relationship with someone doesn't guarantee that to you will or would be married to the person for life.

Oh yes, you got engaged and celebrated the years looking forward to memorable dates together, isn't a prove that you will or would marry the person eventually.

Let me also say this, that you courted for years and infact had your introduction doesn't validate that you will be married to that person.

So many even celebrated your traditional marriage in grand style and all cultural rites were paid, isn't still a guarantee that you will end up as friends for life.

We go to the extent of having court weddings, contract weddings and even church weddings yet that doesn't mean we can't still be separated for life.

Now, to the main highlights, am not here to promote any form of divorce, separation and disassociation, but better put, the world has so many reasons why these form of relationships ceases to exist.

Long before now, just being in a relationship with someone holds so many waters and it was highy valued with so much integrity, most times families are involved and at every stage they help you both go through your challenges and proffer workable solutions to help you scale through.

In our days, it baffles me that some people will court for years, undergo all forms of marital process, engagement, court wedding, traditional marriage and church wedding and just a little storm that befalls them they either file for divorce or walk of the marriage without considering the damage it migth befall on them or their children and future.

Recently, there is no guarantee in marriage, some people will be dully married and they still harbor concubines, they keep man friends and disregard the institution and scared laws in marriage and that's why we are recording lots of divorce in our time.

For the sake of an innocent generation who are yet to be born, let's all understand the values and reason why we get married, its best to stay married and be a reason why some looks up to being married someday because of the value you give to yours.

Despite the flaws and challenges associated with marriage this day, so many are also breaking records, celebrating years of togetherness, celebrating forgiveness, love, tolerance, patience, perseverance, pains and even the unknown, in all we hear of 50 years, 30 years and 70 years together, it's highy possible, strive to make yours work in a world full of pollution.

Vivsravine speaks