SECOND CHANCES

-


Let's talk about second chances and why many don't fancy it and most especially when they are truly hurt. 

We live a world filled with animosity, rage, anger, hates, gossip disappointments, betrayals and so many vices. 

Many find it very difficult to apologise to others when there is a strife, fight or even quarrel, they rather go their separate ways then consider a second chance to the offender. 

We all agree that some people are so unteachable, some are rather unyeilding and even so many are unbending, they are so strong hearted that they are careless and don't even consider the fact that some one is hurt, apologising and even trying to get a second chance. 

Dear victim, we understand that is so hard to let go of the pains when it has happened and many would rather sake for revenge when been offended rather than to forgive and give a second chance to their offender. 

Give that person a second chance, God keeps giving us so many chances unlimited to count, why not we do same for our neighbours, none is without sin you know, hence the need for us to continually seek to make amends and forgive our offenders because we also offend others one way or the other.

Forgive and letting go of your offender sets you free also and enables you to heal faster and come out of your pains in time to become a more better person.

I urge you to come back to reality, let your offender be forgiven, grant then a second chance but apply wisdom so they don't repeat what led to your pain again, if possible please pray for them.

The world needs a second chance and because the world has failed to grant it, that is why our world is filled with so many rage and vices every now and then, wars on wars, fights so unending and strife has taken the day, hate speech here and there, conflicts and anger, we need a more peaceful society to enable us grow and be better people when we adopt a second chance approach to situation confronting us. 

Vivsravine ©

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

DON'T MERRY AT PEOPLE'S PAIN

-
Image
 I saw a post where someone made a comment and said "try and sit at the other side and see how painful it is when you talk down on people. It is so sad and never a welcoming situation when you feel you are always better of, you don't have an iota of what people go through and you just imagine or assume somethings can never happen to you.  Sincerely, no one ever wishes for anything wrong or bad to happen to them but again, life always happens, a minute we merry the next second we are in pains, we find answers to our pligths and again we just wonder and weary why and how it all happened. Life, isn't for us to determine or control rather we can only impact on our best possible ways and give it our all and even most times it is never enough, we cannot steer the affairs of life.  Don't dare laugh or merry at any one's pains  because you feel you are better of, don't mock them because you are not in their positions, don't talk down on them, don't ignore them
Read more

DONT BE INTIMIDATED

-
Image
If you understand that life comes in phases, you wont be bothered by what happens around you so keenly So many things are enough to make you feel less a person, when you allow them take hold of you. There are catalyst who propels you to go out of your way to see that things are done or better still satisfy people and contents, yet we also have pressures who forces you to do things out of your will power to satisfy personal self or a greedy community. Be intensional about everything you do, don't allow sentiments of any sort becloud your thoughts. Be accountable for your actions, take responsibilities for them and make sure you avoid every form of explanation to anyone, they are absolutely distractions. Never apologise for your feelings because you were intensional about it, rather make feasible ammends in the situation where you hurt any one. Always remember that life comes with various choices, many will intimidate us, yet a few will give us opportunities to be better of, yet its
Read more

STOP 🛑 IT

-
Image
Just almost when i got to the food stuff sellers shop, she also arrived, carrying Agege bread on her head, looking so hagged and hungry. How much is this rice, it looks so fine, the food seller replied her, its 400 per derica, while I was waiting to be attended to, she continued give me one derica, I don't eat rice with stones, I won't be able to eat it, she told the food seller, she buttressed again,  I can't eat rubbish because I don't have money, I left with my items while I pondered on the scene that just played out, the bread seller looks so unkept, probably from the hawking and again very hungry, even though she might not be able to afford the perfect life, but she deserves to eat the best, even if thats not what life has given to her. Many a time, we feel we are better than others because we are in a good position, we feel they don't deserve to get the best things in life, we feel they can't pass the road we have crossed, we feel they don't and can
Read more