AFTER VALENTINES DAY

Valentines day comes with so much expectations ranging from various activities and moods, validations and accommodations yet its a fact that it isn't limited to showing love to your loved ones alone.

Most lovers exhibited their A-romance game to the fullest, while some remain dormant and so unborthered, the moods varies.

Most singles were eventually hooked, while some didn't have an iota of what was going on, while some entered depression.

I saw a lot happened yesterday, some where fully dressed in the colors of love and they went all the way to express love, again we saw some who were just doing their normal norm and going about their business.

Just yesterday, there was lots of dramas that happened online, some ladies fought over a married man, another guy caught his girlfriend with another man while she told him she was home, the man displayed lots of fury, some were proposed to while some people received a massive heart break and the aftermath effect lies in their hearts.

Oh, did  I forget to add this, most ladies would lose their virginity while some will do all it takes to satisfy a man in the name of valentine and to the men those who couldn't meet up with taking their ladies out and getting them a gift, they are probably at the verge of losing their relationship.

Valentine is more than this, valentine is all about others and adding a great smile on their faces, it is beyond self, rather it is selfless, I saw a video of a lady who went ahead to share some cash to some hawkers on the road and the smile on their faces was so bold and endearing, such love.

To the many who life hasn't shown love or to the many who don't know what love is all about, its okay but be reminded that we all have time and turns and hence just remain stead and wait for it, certainly it would come.

Love has no definition, it's is selfless and it goes out of its way to bring untold smiles.

If you didn't receive a gift yesterday or after, it is okay.

If no one called, text or took you out yesterday or after therein, it is okay.

If you haven't ever experienced love at any point, it is okay

If love hasn't found you, it is still okay

You can't give what you don't have, it is sometimes better to check your self too, to know why, try and share and extend friendship and fellowship to others, spread and care for others and go out of your way to impact souls positively, sponsor a soul and bring smile to someone, that's love and certainly it will come back to you when you least expected.

Know this too, valentine isn't just a day affair, it's is a continual affair, it entails showing love and care daily to the strangers and neighbours around us.

Vivsravine speaks

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