THE MANGO TREE STORY

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I was seated with some noble men sometime ago, when one of the men asked another a very frank question "when are you getting married?

The listener kept quite to that question while another man on the table told us a short story.

He started by saying he was at a certain place in the North and he came across some mango trees, then he noticed this particular mango tree that has sweet riped fruits but they were very unaccessible to the reach of those below rather the birds perched on them, eat a part and left for another riped fruits.

He continued with his narrations and laid emphasis on pratical dating relationships and the way to go.

THE TREE

There are several trees in the same vicinity that bears fruits but it takes only the time of those who are ready to go the mile to access them.

THE RIPED FRUITS

Certainly, there would be unriped fruits too, even in the midst of riped fruits (ready) many won't still see them to take advantage of them and secure access to them, most especially in relationship.

THE BIRDS

There are so many deceivers in this dating relationship, all they do is to peach from one fruit to the other and succeed in soiling good fruits and leaving them bad to access.

THE PEOPLE

These are people who see these riped fruits but because they are very far away from them, they fail to go the extra mile hence they allow scrupulous entities to access them.

This short pstory taugth me alot, many a time we place our find ourselves in places where we can't be accessed and even when we become so high we end up being used by people or factors that hurts us the most and eventually we become shadows of ourselves.

In relationships its always better we set the lines straight, define our terms and work with s goal to fully access want we want.

The mango tree story exposes us to the daily routine associated with pratical dating and marriage relationships, all the elements involved here are inevitable elements we can't do without in our relationship activities.

To every *NO" leads you to the "YES" you are anticipating, may we be guided and placed in positions that are accessible, may we be attractive to those who truly want to access us and may we not be exposed to dubious factors or persons who will use and make us redundant in relationship

Vivsravine speaks 


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