DIFFERENT STROKES

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In life its always better to remain peaceful with yourself and don't allow any form of pressure to rule and ruin your life.

A certain celebrity got married in 2017, her chief bride's maid got married in 2019 and had her first baby in 2020, while the lady who got married in 2017 had her first baby in 2021.

I know of a relationship that started online on the 30th of July 2020 and on the 1st of March 2021 they are getting married, while another started online chatting on the 13th of June 2020 and they are still in the process of introduction and due progress.

Yet we have had stories of some who got married at 25 and had their first birth at 45,while some even got married in late thirties and had their babies immediately.

In the same view, you find many who after school never got meaningful employments while some who just graduated are in millions of money.

Sincerely, the race isn't for the swift, life isn't fair, yet we ought to realise that in the game of life we must accept what we can't change and change what we could.

Stop fussing over nothing, stop worrying over uncertainties, forget the hard realities and focus on the positive attainables.

Don't let little nothings or huge realities ruin your life, shake them off and build a better version of your self, set your targets and work towards them and certainly you would surpass the lines.

Destinies are seeds from the great Potter, refuse to be "cowed" by human opinion of who you are ignore those who try to look down on you and don't look down on any one, because no one was there when God created you.

Believing in yourself and who you are,that's the greatest power of all, because those things that seems out of reach becomes closer than you see.

Why worry over what you can't change, live knowing that what you can change is within your reach and that's enough reason to smile.

Vivsravine speaks 

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