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  You can't be a woman without being articulated, the society calls for it. Being a woman entails so much and you mustn't fail in your expectations. A woman is a home builder, a home keeper, a business mogul, a caregiver and everything in one for everyone. Stronger than her feebles, multitasking in nature and focused per excellence. She gathers all together in a place, a goal getter with much wavelength, a source of joy for those under her domain, she risks all to make sure you are comfy. Don't dare test her strength, don't make her furious and don't play on her shabby intelligence, she hates it. Admire her and sing her praise, certainly you would get more loyalty from her, appreciate her little efforts, it takes her a lot to get things done, salute her resilience, she isn't a fool, appraise her even when she lost it If she loves you, you won a lottery, if she gives you her mind, she can sacrifice anything for you, if you have her heart, she would worship...

  Earrnings Nose ring Hand chain. Leg chain.. Finger rings Necklace Belly ring Tongue ring Wrist watches Bangles Waist beads Hair extensions Many would say its just for fashion and they sure can go to any length to buy them and wear them without a second thought. Well, so many would also attest to the fact that their partners loves such attachments but i won't be exaggerating to say that the list above could be worn by someone at the same time. Then, I start to wonder how comfortable and convinent this accessories are to those who wear them all at the same time. What happens to simplicity, what happens to living naturally and looking more beautiful without these accessories? Truthfully, when attachments becomes too much, the essence of it becomes worthless, one can actually looks so beautiful and presentable without all these metals and extensions. So many have taken it to the next level by adding to the list, they bleach their skin, go for cosmetic surgery and it...

In life its always better to remain peaceful with yourself and don't allow any form of pressure to rule and ruin your life. A certain celebrity got married in 2017, her chief bride's maid got married in 2019 and had her first baby in 2020, while the lady who got married in 2017 had her first baby in 2021. I know of a relationship that started online on the 30th of July 2020 and on the 1st of March 2021 they are getting married, while another started online chatting on the 13th of June 2020 and they are still in the process of introduction and due progress. Yet we have had stories of some who got married at 25 and had their first birth at 45,while some even got married in late thirties and had their babies immediately. In the same view, you find many who after school never got meaningful employments while some who just graduated are in millions of money. Sincerely, the race isn't for the swift, life isn't fair, yet we ought to realise that in the game of life we mu...

Learn to be contended with what you have, greed takes all you have and even more. The ability to remain satisfied in a world full of incompleteness, greedy and envy is the best thing that can happen to you in recent times Many has lost stable relationships, good business opportunities, great friendships, good jobs, strong alliance and great souls because they allowed greed, unsatisfied mindset and envy ruin them. The world is full of selfish individuals, who all they want is to be better than others by all means negative and dubious ways No one cares about the impact and feelings of others, we all want to be ahead of others, take advantage of those who can't afford to leverage with us. We are easily projected with massive incomes,  wonderful projects, gigantic opportunities and even want everything good to be traced to us alone. What is the fate of those who can lobby like us? What happens to those who can't provide the means like us? What is the state of those who are a...

To the man.. Who makes me smile for no reason Who loves me even in my merest self Who forgives my many flaws Who teaches me with every patience Who cares and sacrifices  for me Who is ready to go the extra m ile with me Who trades all to be with me Who habors my inadequacies and polishes me Who honours and adores me Who labour's to see me smile and win Who protects me in the midst of fears Who leads me to the way of the cross and salvation Who is my brother my best friend and my forever Who is my pride, my crown and my endowment Who is the glory that covers me, the future I longed for Who is the hope of my patience, my joy unending, my peace Who is my world and everything, my own space and domain. May the heavens honor you May the earth respect you May men come to your dwelling May angels locate you always May I love, respect, submit and cherish you for life May the world remember your legacies May the earth stand still when you are mentioned May God chose...

Really the good things of life are so good that you find it hard to avoid, inevitable indeed. Life would have been or being sweeter and ever worth fighting for if there was no news of death infact even if we struggled we will still be happy in it. Death is just inevitable and as such  the need to be prepared irrespective of time, claas, personality, power .fame, wealth, status  e race, gender, age, Oh the list endless. Disheartening it seems inevitable factual, thoughtful and Painful. I just lost my adjectives right now, but no matter how it comes, its mindful we make a good race and don't allow anything to take this place of endless peace,love and happiness from us while we are preparing our account books Teach us lord the mere-ness of our lives, help us not to see the this of this world as permanent but teach us and open the eyes of our mind to see what you really put before us life or death Please chose salvation today .. Make amends,eternity has no end. Death is ...

  What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, the ability to remain resilient is the backbone to overcome all forms of pain ans endure to the very end. The only gifts we have as human beings is the gift of one another, no matter how much of an island you feel you are,certainly you need the next person to help you get through. When you get out of the tunnel, stretch out your hands to bring forth your brother, that the only way to grow faster in life. Detachment is also part of what we  met in this world, so be mindful that we will also leave them in this world rather be agents of love and impact while you are still here. If any one among you thinks that he is wise in this age, let him become a fool that he may become wise don't be too literal about the things of this world. You shall love your neighbour and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, hard but very practicable indeed. The weight life gives is more than we can ...

  Night in the midst of darkness, The pain of no ending,  hopefully we get a happy feeling. Wished we could smile again, the smile that gave life and bliss. We lost our voices, we loved to be heard, so helpless. Never gag the voice of a woman, its like an oversight, empty promises they make yet ws surfaced. A determined bunch, headbent, not silenced nor intimated, like an echo we roared in series. We fought till we were heard, the road block was much to bear, tired of mourning and bearing pains. We might be needy but we aren't begging, we need justice, we are now used pain, they mock our pain and feed on us like carcass and so happy like vultures when they do this. The rich also cry, the mighty fall, poor also rule , but we have to speak even when it's unpleasant, we speak until we win,  the dignity of the vulnerable protected. The delay was our gain, our pain was now in the past but the future is still blink but we already know our grounds Knowing when to figh...

  Don't marry someone you are not attracted to both sexually, spiritually and otherwise. I mean, how can you marry someone that whenever you look at the person nothing moves you on the inside. Don't punish yourself unnecessarily, there is a law called '' attraction "if you don't find it in yourselves don't continue in that relationship Never lose who you are because you want to please them, if you force your way through them, you would eventually loose out. Those who truly value you won't let you go no matter what happens, invest only on those who walk the extra mile with you. Men are like babies they don't really know they are hurting you untill you speak and women are so vocal in words that are easily hurting too. Don't take any one's love for granted, even if you don't love them same,just be polite enough to tell them , it helps them heal faster and better, but never telling them and allowing them heal make them forgets that yo...

  Figth my memories and giving away my mistakes the pains they make us endure timelessly. Dreams end but realities are waiting for you the next moment, how true they face you. Living a fantasy, they will stop at nothing but we got strong bliss but we didn't crack, very talented and beautiful and tactful. Remodeling my dreams like I was transferred to asylum. Dramatic it was but they felt the next place is hell but I got them ready for a worse episode. Without doubts we all fall sooner than later, strange affection shroud and efficient but we won't go down with them. We lost our minds, confused our realists with lies, but no one turned us against anyone, they live next to the devil. There is a very little hero in everyone, a message is from the source, I told my own story even before the event happened, like a haze weather I lost my vision. A project I was proud of but I  waited for my lost strength, the trauma and the rules are the benefits we lived with, so holistic b...

  When you close your eyes when bas things happens, when the good things happens you won't see them. A friend once said that to me during a chat about the recent wars happening on social media handles. Often times you wonder what exactly is the figth ans fuss going on such media, lots of people figth over everything, form tribal wars to religious ward to even political wars and other matters arising. It hurts to imagine how we allow ourselves to be involved with lots of hate speech, abuses ans insults like we are in a battle ring facing each other for a boxing match. Social media platforms are virtual environments where we interact and meet people might never see for life, so how come we figth to a fuss and even keep animosity and even extend it to innocent individuals. About issues that causes alot of fuss and hates, its always better to find out more about a given topic and be very certain before you come online to display show of ignorance and stupidity. Be mindful that y...

I was rigth at his domain I felt guilty for soiling his pathway, so beautiful his environ looked, I just can't stop to imagine. The sky is indeed very beautiful probably because its close to yhw dwelling place of God, the clouds looks more graceful and clean, the air looks so cool even though we couldn't feel it. I watched with all smiles, wished i could have a feel but alas the convener couldn't allow us do so. Oh, wished an angel will just show forth, wished we see one of the cherubs singing along the pathway yet no flying object was ever noticed. Who can understand the ways of the most high, who could be seen around such axis and where are the heavenly bodies at this time? We hope to enjoy the atmosphere and watch through the skies. We wished we could feel the elements, ah! We could only see them if they are closer but we can't touch them, yet we love to have a glimpse. The sky is full of mysterious stories, awesome bodies and elements, unreachable bliss and wonderfu...

 ITS LOVE DAY Love isn't a day affair, rather it an endless affair that entails all we have got. Love isn't a word, rather its an action that seeks to make merry even in the midst of pain I heard that love is sacrifice which boils down to create impacts and goes beyond self. Did I tell you that love is the greatest virtue anyone can share and its never weary. Chose the fact that love happens always and discard the fact that many won't share it. No matter how love finds you, embrace it, cherish it, guard it, preserve it and nurture it. Everyone you come across seeks to be loved, shown love and craves for love no matter who they are. Be the first to give love, share love and imbibe love, keep being a love carrier, crusader for love and a soldier who figths for love. Love is a like a plant, you got to expose it to the sun, allow the rain pour on it, add manure to it, don't forget to purge it of weeds to, if you dare want a healthy love. Submit to all, get ready to touch so...

I was seated with some noble men sometime ago, when one of the men asked another a very frank question "when are you getting married? The listener kept quite to that question while another man on the table told us a short story. He started by saying he was at a certain place in the North and he came across some mango trees, then he noticed this particular mango tree that has sweet riped fruits but they were very unaccessible to the reach of those below rather the birds perched on them, eat a part and left for another riped fruits. He continued with his narrations and laid emphasis on pratical dating relationships and the way to go. THE TREE There are several trees in the same vicinity that bears fruits but it takes only the time of those who are ready to go the mile to access them. THE RIPED FRUITS Certainly, there would be unriped fruits too, even in the midst of riped fruits (ready) many won't still see them to take advantage of them and secure access to them, most e...

It feels good to win all the races that comes your way but feels more better to win the hardest one but feels best when you lose too, it helps you see the brighter side of what you didn't do. Through the good and the bad are all needed life takes the most of us but staying rigth here with you is the best of all. When the times gets tough, we are prepared for it, we go through it all like it never came, yet the bliss over sees the pains we shared. When you are being loved , you don't have to be perfect, your will go love ia for real.,everyone is available for who they love. Be who you are and not what you are conditioned to. Don't let anyone make u feel less of yourself, just recall always that you can't please everyone The world loves to castigate bully, insult ans rubbish your efforts no matter how much you try, indeed the works isn't friendly but chose to make the world a better place admits all negatives ans vices. We have good ans6bas people everywhere, take no ...

  Concerning Individual differences, we all mustn't be the same, truly our differences makes us anticipate and wait for the next moves, so unpredictable it is, yet loving to behold. That someone is low or high does not make them more matured than the other. There is no yardstick to these things. A woman is pregnant and shows off baby bumps and still has her baby safe and sound, another hides it all through and still loses the baby, just go with what works for you. I agree with you, our times are bad and its so necessary to pipe low yet you can't control adults who deem it fit for what they desire. Just like LGTB(lesbianism, gay, transgender, bisexuality) abnormally. I won't and can't support that insanity yet l can't stop those who are indulging, why, because they are adults and so know that what they are doing is wrong, yet l can only say mine and leave the judgement for God Its high time we respect people's opinions, views, suggestions and way of life, ...

Funny how we all slope to a trend no matter how good or bad the trends comes to us. Everyone wants to jion a challenge and they easily forget so soon that one mustn't indulge in everything the Internet brings. Silhouette challenge just laid low after so much hype and haze, now we have another challenge called celebrity lookalike. I just wonder what is so special about look alike with celebrity that people won't just learn to appreciate the uniqueness of who they are. You mustn't look like one celebrity before you know you are beautifully and wonderful made,more sp do you know that even the so called celebrities envy you and wants to lool like you too? Low self esteem has so eaten into the hearts of many that they do everything humanly possible to look like these celebrities, from bleaching the skin to wearing expensive make ups, from borrowing above their means to wear designers and also starving to live a fake life. Its so unfortunate that we allow ourselves to be u...

In the world of today , we come across different people with various mindset and belief system, sadly, we argue about whose religion or belief system is better and why the other person's own is bad or wrong. For real and of a fact we are expected to respect people's beliefs and how they chose to live their lives. A Muslim believes that's when he washes he is body before praying he has washed away all the sins he committed amd that God will answer his prayers, he believes that he must pray five times a day and give alms before he can receive God's blessings and forgiveness. A Roman Catholic, Believes in the trinity, they believe in the saints, they don't worship images but see those images as symbol of the saints behind them, they use the rosary as power of intersection and as such, the highest form of prayer for them is the holy mass, living a good life and receiving communion. Protestant, believe more in the new testament way of worship and as such they are hi...

No matter how paired we are, we still sleep lonely and so inevitable as it seems, you can't be everything in one. Admits all suffering and pains, we are expected to respond to the pains of others and that is the best way to live in an uncertain world. Restoring dignity of human lives and identify with the suffering of others, this the basic and purpose of our existence Don't ask why we suffer, rather do something and  be impactul about the needs of others, adhere to a standard, which is to touch lives more positively Every difficulty situations presents its self opportunity for us to intervene in the pains of other and lighten their burdens. We are expected to use our talents, treasure and time to the needs of those around us and be instrument of change and a blessing to those who can't reward us. Many hope on us to get liberty and rest, many can't reach out to us because we have failed to notice them with our high class life and pride infested attitude. Indeed ...

Relationship is like a garden, its beautiful when watered with love and hugs, tears and cheers, encouragement and motivation, sacrifice and commitment,but dries up when left untouched, deserted, ignored and forgotten. Learn to stay in touch with your loved ones, they are truly the ones who would stand and stay by you in all given situations of your life, good or bad. In love you have the rigths to to be wrong, you have the right to make mistakes ,you have the right to explore , you have the right to make assumptions, you have the right to discern , recall that fruits of a tree can only fall within the tree's jurisdiction, make sure you fall within the space of your beloved. See through their eyes, that's the door way to their hearts, immortalise them if truly they have impacted so greatly in your world, in love there is no holding back, push, pull, move, soar, engage, just do something to make it work. There is aways a story line with love ,even if its magical the story li...

  Yea it's the month of love,yet love is not limited with time,it should be practiced every time to all human and race alike. Now on relations most especially the "Eros " kind of love, now let me put it clearer,, its should be reciprocated and when it's not, just do your part and allow the other a chance to love you back, but if the person is not bold enough to tel you, do give the person a time frame to prove his or her love to you but if it does not, let it go. Be mindful that whatsoever you do in  unreciprocated relationship is at your own risk and love grounds. Don't make the other feel you are giving him or her a breath of life just because you love the most and he or she isn't loving back, LOVING IS A CHOICE. Be happy in it, if you found love and you are loved back,but when you are no, either give it time or move out. Even God loves us first and he also expects us to love him back by obeying him and living to his standards yet he won't force us...

  "Money is a tool but the goal" someone close to me once said Money connotes respect automatically, that's how the world has been programmed. Trust me, when you are poor, you would be dispised, even if you are so wise, even if you have the best profession, no one will regard you. There is no title without an entitlement, good or bad title entails an inevitable entitlement. "it shouldn't be about the money but the meaning" I once heard a man who was making a piont at a gathering of elites but he was shutdown because he has no money. Allow me emphasis on this, the same one month you work and earn 30,000 is the same one month another works and earns 1 million, the same venture you indulge  and make peanuts is the same business another explores and makes millions. We all operate in different levels and will power even when what we do seems same, people fail to accept the fact that we can't all be the same. There is a measure expected of you in your ...

  Put your head on a skill not a shoulder and make money not one stupid challenge that will rubbish your future in the end. It's so sad with the recent bubuhagie that is parading all social media handles in the name of a naked challenge called silhouette. I wonder how stupid and dumb many have become just because they want to trend and they sell their future and souls to thw Internet and forget so soon that the Internet never forgets. There are various types of innovations that are really mind blowing, yet there are dirty and stupid ones too that are deminating and dehumanising. Some one wakes up, conceives from his dubious mind  to create an app that stripes you naked from the comfort of your home and the world watches you from the comfort of their phones. Let me ask, are you truly sane? This question ought to be asked because many are so carried away by what the Internet sells and gives to them at the platter of gold. People hardly stops to have a rethink before indul...

I am an institution, dare not to comprehend  I am a book you will research about even when am gone. I am an amazon, a life giver, a caregiver, a lover I am a force, a catalyst, a volcano of bliss.. I am the unlimited winds that blows, yet you can't catch a glimpse, I chose to be what I am. I am a sunshine, I lluminate souls,yet i burn negative energies. I am a goal getter,a writer,a peace so inevitable I am rare, ordinary, rustic yet a diamond in d sky I am a star on earth & a praise giver in heaven I am a horizon that spread tentacles of joy I am Vivian, am vivicaious, am lively. I an amazon you can't reach without a feel. See beyond your thoughts about me, your opinions of me doesn't define who I am, I am a goal getter, a rustic and agile a fellow. I chose to excel admits all odds, the challenges therefore makes me stronger and better, I invent a personality within me and I remain resilient. Those who filch against me would always find their place in the past of times...