TO WHAT END

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When people misplace..
Priority..
Prospects
Property....

Priority is what comes first before pursuing other things...

Prospects... Are the things you probably want to chase or you are chasing already

Property is what you legally own or a right given to you..

Please understand this and you get it right, don't make others feel wrong or stupid just because you haven't found themselves or are positioned to take charge and do what is rigth and expected.

I might not be the best of me or what you expect of me but am me, someone once said "expect less from people and expect more from yourself, that the only way to stay happier but be reminded that you are the best version of yourself .

You are not out to please everyone one yet its better to impact lives in your smallest and widest domain, that's all that matters.

Live and be true to yourself, don't let little nothings and bigger something  which is temporary and fake affect or influence your person ,your integrity and status in life matters to you mostly

Time will surly sort all things, so while you wait, recall that when the perfect comes the imperfect will surly disappear, so why bother about life's funny antics.

Stop living on people's opinion about your life, we all reason differently, we have different belief systems and more so we have different orientations and background dwelling so keenly on people's thoughts about you will not only pull your down but also affect your future.

Learn to be you always, don't compromise for your feelings, don't lower your standards to gain peoples accolade, just be your self, in the end you matter before any other thing.

Let no one no matter who they are to you define who you are, create your worth and explore your space, you are more deserving.. 


Vivsravine speaks 




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