EX ONI's WIFE

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Recently, every space and blog has alerted us about her divorce and separation of the monarch's wife from the Royal family, so many reactions cropping from her release yesterday.


Here is my opinions as to the reactions so many has thrown to either disapprove her decisions or applaud her reactions.


Its better to live with purpose than to die with pains, maybe if not eveyone but some of us has either indulged with wrong relationships or just walked away from one, sometimes we can't forsee the future with someone untill we fully indulge.


It takes courage, strength and wisdom to leave such a marriage coupled with the fact that a lot of people feels she is okay and in wealth so why leave the marriage?


When you find out any of these in a relationship (occultism, diabolic acts and domestic violence/abuse and decit ) my dear its high time you leave with your life fully in sanity else you will be pronounced dead.


I will say this again, i don't support divorce because it's for better for worse but when the four things listed above are in found in your relationship, please my dear, leave with your life .


So many would remain because they want to bear Mrs. Someone and live in perpetual pain and eventually die in it, so many are ashamed to be labelled divorces or separated, how so?


You need to be alive to take care of your self first, maybe your kids and other family members, you still have beautiful purpose to achieve on earth, marriage isn't the ultimate ticket to heaven, more so real love can still find you.


Others would say, the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know, hey, many a time its just a mindset, starting all over again might take time but you deserve the best, yes, what if the next person is worse than the first, in life you have to indulge before you conclude.


Apart from the ONI's ex wife, there are so many who are hording a lot behind the smiles, no family wants to lose their daugthers and sisters, it's best you see through what works for you and know when to decline a toxic relationship for your own good.


Divorce isn't a sin, your sanity matters and your life is more precious than an relationship that is a detriment to your life.


More so let's not fail to appreciate and applaud those who strive in marriage admits all challenges and have good memories to show, we all can't be lucky in this marriage thing, just pray to win in the end no matter what happens

 


Vivsravine speaks 

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