THEY SAY MOVE ON "

Recently, a young boy was molested in school and eventually killed, bloggers carried alot of news about it while some ended up telling the family to move on.

Its so sad to know that we often pretend to hide under something because we are not directly affected.

How do you tell a woman who has lost an only child to any means to move on and continue from the pain.

How do you easily tell a woman who has nurtured a relationship for years to move on after a heart break?

How do you console a man who has lost everything in a day to move on and be a man?

How do you watch a loved one die in your presence and some one is telling you to move on.

She lost her newly wedded groom in days and now she is a young widow, maybe she lost her husband of so many years of bliss and you ask her to move on.

We are/were first human beings before we could be anything else, it's so hard to move on, start again and forget about things because we are totally humane, no matter how strong we act, we have this part of us that truly breaks down.

It is keen to allow people to heal no matter the number of years it migth take them, we all have different capacity rate to adopt and adapt to life.

Don't wait until it happens to you before you learn to be human and show empathy to others plight, a little bit of compassion goes a long way in helping others to heal, a word of prayer also helps but don't make it a law by telling them to "move on"  so easily, they are fighting wars they can't explain.

Vivsravine speaks