YOUR MARRIAGE

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Sometime ago, i had a chat with a friend and as I listened to all that was said, I made my pionts written, so as to share with my beloved..

Marriage is not for scattered people, it is for people who have assembled themselves in the following ways:

Mentally
Financially
Physically
Emotionally
Sciologically
Academically
Sexuallly
Spiritually

If you find your partner boring  or scared to be with or relate with or you feels he or she has taken advantage over you, please leave quietly.

Relationships has to be with friendship, if you are not committed or in communication to your partner.. Stay away from them than hurting them.

The quality and content of your person is what makes the substance of who you are.

Oh, if you have love  in your heart  and you cant communicate it to your partner, then you are dead.

Why you do have to condem someone who is making efforts

Hmm,People might even tell you, that you are crazy  for communicating, set your goals, ignore the naysayers and plan your ways.

Marriage



isa lot work, a hard one at that, make sure you communicate, commit and concentrate to make it work, if you don't someone else will do the things you failed to do..

HARD TRUTH.. dont love  someone who isnt ready..
Don't say you love someone and keep them hanging.
Don't give out green ligths when you know don't have a future with them.

... We will have a enough time to sleep when we are dead, but for no,invest in your marriage, make it work by doing all you can, above all make God your number one.

Vivsravine speaks 



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