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  Some few days ago, I wore one of the gowns I used for my birthday celebrations to church and someone picked on me and said the gown was short and that I was dressed indecently to church. Well this said person can be funny at times but there was alot of seriousness with him, I smiled at his probelm and waved him off. Considering the fact, that he isn't the God who would and should judge me, he isn't my husband and he didn't get the clothes for me, besides I am highy comfortable with what am wearing hence I considered him one of those religious fanatics who is always looking out for faults to discredit others. Moreso, one of the Nigerian Gospel singers and prophetess recently uploaded a picture of her wearing a baggy shirt and trousers and the world picked on her, that she is misleading people and I asked when has it become a sin to wear what you are comfortable with as long as you are not naked? We live in a world full of hypocrites who sees the faults in others and side l...

You see everyone you come across in life has a story to tell. Don't act like your story is better than the other because you didn't get to pass through what they went through. In the journey of life we all have one story attached to our names, the difference is that we alone can tell our stories better. To some their stories are so good and they are grateful for life, while to some their story is so pathetic that we wish they never happened. Our destinies are different, we are not set for the same kind of expectations and experiences in life yet this life happens to us all. Some who are so privileged migth meet their down times later in life, while some who started with the wars migth meet their pleasures later in life. Hold on to the positive things that kept life going even in thr midst of the heat, the pains migth last for a life's time yet a glimpse of hope is all we anticipate to make the dark days brighter. Share in each other's burden that's the only ...

  Have you ever rejected any responsibility because there is no gain or benefit attached to it? What exactly does service mean to you? If giving out your time and treasure and talents for the sake of humanity is always for a fee for you then you have to recheck your purpose on earth. Or do you see it as an opportunity to show appreciation to God for all he has done for you? Its better to align your commitments to the service of others effortlessly, so as to fully accomplish your purpose. Our primary aim of life is the sacrifice we give to others and not for the selfish gains we accumulate for ourselves. No matter whatever position you occupy in public or private organisations its best you serve for the good of others that's why you were elected in the first place. Are you always clamoring for your rights and gains or the will to fulfil the desires of others, so that we have a sanitised society? Are you amongst those who who buy responsibility, or positions? If you do, such...

  Indeed another 366 days.. I recalled my previous birthday this time last year, admits the turbulence of all that happened in October 2020. I asked God for 3 things ... Exponential connections ... Divine settlement ... Family upliftment It all seems like magic, but I trust GOD for miracles,indeed everyone of my request was granted and even more I can't share here. Another year has begun and I count my blessings again, this time I will ask for 3 things, I will share them next year when they happen. I count my blessings in quantum, indeed I have seen the glory of GOD, of a fact what God cannot do does not exit, am a living testimony of his love  an effulgence of his glory, I radiant blessing and I carry his grace. As he is so am I in this world, I don't operate on the economy of this world but of God's abundance and fullness, am not ordinary, I carry God on my inside and manifest his works. Happy birthday to me Ahudiya 1 nke best influence, asalicious nke oyeoma na...

  Two days before my birthday, October a month I cherished so much. Same two days before the planned visit to Abuja to see have the best moment for my birthday thanksgiving which was disrupted by the end sars protest which was hijacked by our political inclined beings. On this said ay, as I got excited and longed for my trip, with all arrangements in place, I went about posting online on the ongoing end sars protest against bad governance and the tied hands of its citizens. My phone went dead as the almighty power holden had seized ligth to faustrate the end sars protester as home, hence I went to my neighbours apartment to charge my phone that evening, while I stayed back at my neighbour's house for a chat about the state of the nation. At about 8pm that sad that day, I went into my apartment when power has been restored and I switched on my phone. Lo, the first post that welcomed me was the live video by DJ switch on Instagram on the incessant shorting at the lekki toll gate, I j...

  If you Dont see the value in having.me by your side, I won't convince you.. Every woman/man  deserves to.have a man or woman who is proudly willing to say to the whole world 'yeah, he or she is my one and only, he or she is beautiful and she is mine, she is intelligent, full of flaws yet she complements me and vice versa  Promise me you stay with me, we figth for what we have and win this war together.. Life isn't governed by miracles but by principles, chose to forgive your partner in advance, its the highest form of love.. There would always be trials and mistakes in marriage but you must be ready to figth & face it and overcome it with love, make yours work.  Marriage last long not because they are destined to but because both involved make a conscious effort to make /work for it. Marriage is a union between two great forgivers, if you don't know how to forgive, there is no need to marry, because there are lots of flaws in marriage that must always occur as ...

As a woman, I have so experienced alot from marriages and I can categorically say that there are 3 types of married women in their homes, as regards my personal encounters with them and shared experiences with people around, permit me to list them aa follows : Home breakers Nonchalants attitudes Home builders HOME BREAKERS These set of married women are just out to break their homes and the homes of other married women, many a time they have a click of friends who all they do is drag their families down, quarrel with relatives and inlaws alike, shatter friendship and pull their husbands down. There is never a happy moment with them, no matter how wealthy their spouses are, they are always ready to ferment trouble and it becomes worse if their husbands isn't as okay as expected, they become the topic of discussion in their gathering and gossips, they gear at his faults and find ways to rubbish his ego if he still has one. They don't take corrections, they are too proud an...