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  Sometimes, we allow some form of annoying attitude because we want to feel loved and stay at peace with people or better still be called good names. For a woman who pampers a child to the extent of the child misbehaving even to her detriments would one day have her self to blame because such child would be a probelm to the society at large. It's bethe to curtail the excesses of the child within and reprimand him of his faults, possibly punish him for acting awkwardly then harboring his faults so as to be called a good mother or avoiding others to correct him while he can still be managed. This same scenario can be applied to when a woman gets a gift for a man, ordinarily an average woman loves to look good, admit al race, color or background, she is wired to look nice, she can do anything to enhance her beauty, so in this regard when a woman sacrifices her needs to meet to your desire, that woman truly loves you. Don't her love for granted, if she loves you and you keep misbe...

   I just thought about you now and a heavy pain made me beclouds my eyes and I held back my tears.  I wished, I prayed and I hoped that I could pay you for all, yet I can't even lift a pin.  But alas, I smiled and smiled again knowing that you aren't human but angelic in human form, so rare to behold.  Then I said a prayer for you, I know that God must have heard because I felt the answers in my heart and of a truth, I am glad.  I sat up knowing, you are behind the smiles, the aura you give is beautiful and the peace you ensue is matchless, priceless indeed.  Saying thank you, makes you feel its too much, you have heard that again and again, despite all you do, you remain resilience, resourceful and reassuring. The thought of you gives great joy, the hand you extend is full and blessed and the words you assure is golden, what a gift.  Words fail me indeed but my thoughts are ever with me knowing to a fact that you are the reasons we still smile, ...

I have seen a lot of things fall out of place and most of the time we listen to what people will say about our situations and this singular act makes us forget ourselves and then we harbor what they said about us and then live in their world.  That you are married and have kids is not enough reason for you to dress haggard and look like the world is against you, many looked so attractive before they got married, but because they now have a family they easily forget themselves and act and look very unkept.  I have seen many couple who don't have kids of their own yet, they treat other people's children like trash, that you don't have children of your own is more than enough reason to treat them well, rather what we see these days is that they act out of faustration and pour their depression on these innocent children  Life facts, we all can't and won't go to higher institutions of learning, our destinies are different, some dropped out, some never attempted, some did...

The quality of choice you make determines the value youh place on yourself self and its the functionality that makes you know if you are successful or not . It helps helps you know if you are happy or not and also determines what your future would look like. A choice can either make you or mare you, choices are indeed a propelling factor of what the world looks like now and what it would be tomorrow . Choice are inevitable factors , no mata how good or bad we are, surly we will all makes choices , now the endpiont is even seen from the beginning . Who I am, is as a result of known and unknown choices I have made and will still make , so I have decided to set my goals rigth , capitalize on my strengths , ultilise my chances and be better than I used to be My choice, my self  my world, my decisions and my gains, I alone determines that. Choice gives you strength to explore , choices give you a head way , yet choice makes you ashamed and bow your head in disgust if you go the w...

We all have various experiences in life and as such it's always better you realise that you are unique and you have your own life to live, stop comparing yourself with others, our destinations are not the same.. The experience and life events we go through can never be same, that you were born the same time with someone, went to the same school ,graduated the same day and possibly worked in the same place does not make your destinies same. Your age mate might have been married ten years ago, some have four kids and you don't even have a relationship let alone settling down, yet some of your age mates might have died too. Some have experienced major breakthroughs in life while you are still lagging behind, yet that does not make you less a person, we have seen people in the same class, started together and few weeks before graduation, many are suspended, others were not even bona-fide members of the school and some died, yet life happens. Other stories like some were marrie...

Father sincerely I want to leave the church, she says Then the Reverend father asked why. She continued, there is a lot going on in the church and I am not comfortable with it. Again, the reverend father asked why and what are her reasons. She listed the following below : *our members gossip alot *many are pretenders *there is a cold war amongst members *the backbiting is endless *unseen atrocities unlimited to mention For these and so many more reasons, I want to leave the holy roman Catholic Church, she says. The reverend father having listened attentively, says to her, is that all, he asked Certainly father, she says. Then the reverend father looked keenly at her and said to her. I have one assignment for you before you finally leave, can you do that for me please, he requested She was glad to hear. The reverend father asked her to get a glass, a bottle of water, then go to the alter ans make sure she fills the glass without a drop falling from the bottle or the gla...

Don't chase, don't beg, don't stress, dont be desperate,just relax, when you relax it will come to you, make your wants wait and defiantly they will come without stress . Do your very best U can't have it all U can't finish it all Leave the rest for God, "uwa bu ofu mbia" We have all failed ourselves,its so hard to trust a fellow , the bad ones has made the very good ones sink in wonder and hide in their shells. Don't ever live to impress anyone  if you must must anyone, impress yourself and seek for God's approval..kabish? Happiness is free keep it real.. Don't stress over what it's not.. More so sadness is free, its your choice to make When you have got the chance to laugh , please do When you have got your chance to smile, please do When you have got to cry, please cry it all out, it takes away pains. When you have got the time to shout, please shout, you will cool off sooner. When you have got to be alone, please enjoy yo...

  Am addicted to good news It keeps me evergreen. Don't focus on my business and loss yourself I enjoy my space alot Those who troll and backlash are indeed myopic, yet all I see is bliss and I move Fast and steady  slow and steady the good news is that there is a movement Our destinations aren't the same, so don't key into my own time, i will honestly fail you I am a catalyst that moves with escape velocity, the time I have is for upgrade Dare not to envy because you will remain in Wonderland as my next move will trill you Stay true and positive, leave them to keep fusing, yet you rule your world Serve God through humanity and make sure you remain focus, recall you can't please all The world needs strong and rigid people yet the soft and fragile ones also haa a role to play Find and know, those who truly care, always stick around but the others are aliens indeed  The world is waiting for you to either make a mistake, fail or win, the choice is yours to make Certainly, ...

Smile for me..be good to me.. Love love love me.... Play with me..sing for me.. Love love love me..... Dance for me be here for me Love love love me...... Rejoice with me cry with me Love love love me..... Care for me, stand for me Love love love me..... Get for me give for me Love love love me..... Pray for me stay with me Love love love me..... Praise for me represent for me Love love love me.... And d I will be all to you Love love love me..... When you Don't lean on emotions and words when you want to experience true love....  FACE REALITY, when meet your soulmate you don't need anyone to convince you that true love exists..... Please know this SEX ISN'T LOVE.. Sex unknowingly make men act as if they are in love when they are not,IT IS FUN FOR SOME MEN, WHILE IS LOVE FOR SOME WOMEN.......just remove emotions and get real How easy is for you to ask her to prove her love for you by having sex with you, yet soo difficult for you to prove yours by wait...

Don't wait untill you get sick before you value health.  Don't wait to see someone one die before you value life.  Don't wait to see someone in pains before you respect your body.  Don't wait to see someone hungry before you can share your proceeds.  Don't wait to see war before you value peace and serenity.  Don't wait to see fire before you think of ways to quench it.  Don't wait to see trouble before you learn how to aviod it.  There are so.many things we can take responsibility for and be accountable to, don't wait to see your neighbour fall before you can offer to help. Don't wait to see people go the wrong direction and you are very comfortable with it The world is going bananas, a lot of haze and drama happens, don't fail to counsel people for a good purpose, don't fail to learn to be patience with people, so you can help pass a virtue to them. The chaos in the world is too much to behold, we need exceptional people like you who will s...

You dress well and flashy, they will say you are too proud and extravagant. You dress simple or shabby, they will say you are too poor and a bad dresser. You eat heavy and enjoy life with what you love to eat, they say you 'eat alone, you die alone, you are inconsiderate and selfish. You eat little and manage what you have they say you are stingy or poor and you will die soon because of malnutrition. You party hard and go to where you love to be, they say, you love to show yourself and you love fame alot, hence you won't last long You stay indoor and you enjoy your own company, they say you can't go far without connections. You hustle day and nigth to make ends meet they say you are too carnal amx worldly, that you won't take these assets to heaven. You are jobless and lonely, they say you are lazy and soon would die of starvation. You are aren't married and you are living out your single life, they say you will die without getting married and you won't have chi...