LOOKING BACK

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The best days are here..
The doors didn't just open.its opened

Looking forward and now
When you realise you needed no one to be complete, but now you want them in your corner forever.

The moment lighted.
The sunshine in the darkness
The bliss and haze makes you wonder.

The fears of the unknown, the worrisome moments and the uncertainties of the now,
You become speechless and remain glued to life and you find it hard to let go

Sometimes, love isn't enough, the realities are always clearer, the confusion lasts for a while yet you are kept wondering for a life time, shrinking because of life, having a part of it than losing it all along.

Love has no denials, the vague realities make it obvious that loving is the thing of the mind if he or she isn't deserving then allow them go but love isn't selfish.

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Getting married, planning a future and having a family is one of the greatest thing life gives us, choosing a life partner amd staying married is one of the hardest decisions to live by.

If we have not intensions of marrying someone then don't be in their lives to occupy space and leave them desolate and wimpy for the rest of their lives.

Loving is active and living, it's the breath that keeps us moving, the impact is greater than life itself, its best to stay away from loving someone partly when your mind is far from them.

Putting your thoughts into words isn't easy most especially when you are truly in love the circle goes on with the heart and mind the pain resurfaces like a time bomb.

I chose to open my doors, took my decisions to stay and sticked to my fears and wars then take my chance with my future moving on with the hope that my choice is my destiny.

Vivsravine speaks




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