VALUE AND RESPONSIBILITY

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If they can't amount to anything to you, then you can't be of any value to them

If they don't take responsibility for you then you add no good to them.

If they pledge their loyalty elsewhere keep your asset within you.

If they aren't accountable to you, don't even let them ever predict your next step.

If they are secretive to you, then seal your mind and sell off your mouth.so they can't hear a word from you 


Don't force yourself to those who don't even know you exist, depart from those who take your availability for granted.

Value yourself enough to know when to set boundaries and keep your sanity top priority.

People come and go 
, attach yourself to those who impact your life and  share your joy with you ,they are those who deserve your best.

Don't let religion make you go through what you won't ordinary take don't allow the voice of those who don't have an iota of what you have been through detect what you should do.

When and if you ever find your bearing ,don't give a hoot to what people would say and when they make you a topic, give them a platform to talk about it but don't ever give room for any explanation, you don't owe any one such privileges.

You are only accountable to anyone who make themselves accountable to you,your loyalty lies with anyone who shares their lives with you and finally, your responsibility is with this who value your worth and appreciate your little effort, anything less than this is not good for your sanity 

Vivsravine

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