MARITAL AFFAIRS

What is good for the geese is also good for the gander, I am so sure you know what it means to react to people the way you treat them, if you treat someone with lots of disdain and pain, certainly when you encounter such, you won't complain. 

In the case of married couple, when you keep treating your spouse in a wrong way, be mindful that if they do the same thing you do to them, you will obviously not survive it.

Marriage isn't about competition, rather every one is equal in it, you are the head as a man and she is the neck as the woman, hence the need to see that one can't do without the other, so whatever measure you take affects the other.

You can't be married and still enjoy cheating and hiding things form your spouse, the day things will fall apart you will have your self to blame.

Often times we act alone, take decisions without indulging our partners, we live as though we are still single even when we are married, neglecting the feelings of the other and acting spontaneously.

Marriage is a total commitment, determined sacrifice and engaging each other until life happens, when we say for better for worse, it cuts deep and the realities we can't run away from, when we say for richer for poorer, it means in both the good times and the bad times we are there for each other, whatever happens to your spouse affects you directly or indirectly, it is expected you both share the consequences and the gains together, after all, two has become one.

Marital affairs are so complicated, most times mysterious and totally takes all from you or adds more to you, but be reminded that there is no marriage without it's own wars, glories  challenges and wins, in all you do seek the good of your spouse, it makes them become better.

Vivsravine©