It is better to remain single and purposeful than to marry and torment your partner with your dirty life style and bad attitudes. Training your children to become instrument in the society does not end at home but their lives must be impacted individually, sadly, even when high morals are adhered you will still see many of them who chose to becomes pains to their parents, to an innocent spouse and even their family and a societial nuisance. Marriage can be draining when you marry a spouse who doesn't listen to you , run all your effort downs, never appreciate you as a person let alone value your worth. Can I say that marriage is not for everyone, some are married but lives single, never indulges their partners in any affair whatsoever, take decisions alone and expect to be treated well, life indeed is a reciprocated reaction. You must not marry, if you know you can't accept what you do to others, you must not marry, when you know you will cheat, you must not marry when you w
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WHY PEOPLE SUFFER
Life as certain as it is, so unpredictable and one can't control what you can't hold of, there are so many reasons why people suffer, even when they are in subjected to good environments and while some are not so privileged. There are many types of suffering in the world as of today. Many suffer from hunger, even when there is plenty food around them but they can't have access to it, funny enough some who have food and can't eat because there is a life clause they are subjected to, more so, there are placed where access to food is a major challenge, hence the people living around there are subjected to abject hunger and starvation. Sickness and diseases is another way people suffer, many have so much money and connection to heal themselves but nature won't forgive hence they remain in their diseases despite all the affluence, while some people are in so much pain because they don't have anyone to help them in the cause of medical attention and care, hence they
MARITAL AFFAIRS
What is good for the geese is also good for the gander, I am so sure you know what it means to react to people the way you treat them, if you treat someone with lots of disdain and pain, certainly when you encounter such, you won't complain. In the case of married couple, when you keep treating your spouse in a wrong way, be mindful that if they do the same thing you do to them, you will obviously not survive it. Marriage isn't about competition, rather every one is equal in it, you are the head as a man and she is the neck as the woman, hence the need to see that one can't do without the other, so whatever measure you take affects the other. You can't be married and still enjoy cheating and hiding things form your spouse, the day things will fall apart you will have your self to blame. Often times we act alone, take decisions without indulging our partners, we live as though we are still single even when we are married, neglecting the feelings of the other and acting
BE DELIBERATELY INTENSTIONAL
Some people would say things like, "when I am rich, I would travel round the world and build empires, others would say when I grow older" I will visit so many places some would even say when I am secured I will protect those around me. There so many wishes that never come through, there are so many words that never came to pass, but there are actions no matter how little grow to be what many enjoy till tomorrow. It is so good to make wishes but it is more beautiful to carry out our dreams and make them realities, for our own benefits and the good of others. Often times life's event might take place, situations so unbearable may occur, sometimes too, time and chance might not surface again and the we lose such opportunities. When you become deliberately intensional, you go an extra mile to achieve things, make the best use of your time and create lasting relationships and build great empires. Many live in total regrets today because of the things they neglected, the time t
THE CONSEQUENCES OF OUR ACTIONS
The things we do deliberately attracts more consequences than the things we do unknowingly. You don't expect to intensionally hurt someone and go scotfree, even if you ask for forgiveness and are forgiven , nature will still take its effects on you, God forgives but nature doesn't forget. Mind what you do to people, especially those we are so innocent of what you do to them, you will certainly pay heavily. You don't except to receive a national award from being wicked to your fellow brother and you go on galavating, some day you will certainly pay for the cost of your actions, karma doesn't forget the actions of pain. We live in a world filled with so much rage, we are always quick to fight and no one is patience with each other, we are so greedy that we want it all to ourselves and we careless of the need and pain of the next persons and when we start bearing the consequences of our actions we start asking questions and wondering where we went wrong. Treat people wit
IN THE AFFAIRS OF LIFE
There are countless situations that we can relate to when we discuss the activities in life, the scenarios are not limited to but similar to different experiences we share. People who come to the hospital are there to get better, they want to follow a procedure, get treatments and want to leave better than they came but unfortunately it isn't always so anticipated. We engage or indulge in various projects in life, some go into business, others learn a trade while some decide to go to school, all in the bid of becoming better and greater than when we all first started. Funny, as the we can recount, many won't complete the projects they started, others will go part way while some will even come to a conclusion but still won't be able to drive the affairs for a long time. Life affairs can be so dearing, some so complicated, others mysterious and while some easy but without a story behind it, we all have something to say about life and how it has dealt with us. Therefore, we r
HOW TO TREAT EACH OTHER IN MARRIAGE
What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Whatever you do affects your partner positively or negatively, recall that to every action there is an equal and opposition reaction. When you keep treating your spouse in a wrong way, be mindful that if they do the same thing you do to them, you will obviously not survive it. Marriage isn't about competition, rather every one is equal in it, you are the head and she is the neck, hence the need to see that one can't do without the other, so whatever measure you take affects the other. You can't be married and still enjoy cheating and hiding things form your spouse, the day things will fall apart you will have your self to blame. If you are in a good marriage, enjoy it and pray it lasts, but if you are in a bad marriage that is unrepairable, please leave, there is more to life than managing what will eventually kill you or take away your peace. Many, stay in unhealthy marriage because of their kids but the truth is tha