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 A very happy new year of bliss goodness and mercy to us all, may the fears and challenges of the previous year never becloud the hopes of this year. If I go ahead to ask us all what were the lessons learnt on 2024, I am sure we all have bucket full of answers so unending and many are not palatable to tell.  To some it was their worse year, to others it was a good year, even to many it was a year they never wished to come by and to a few it's was the best year so far.  Again, we have started counting to what 2025 would be and so many have made resolutions they will never keep, while others have no plans for the year and  some very few people they want to horn what they have established or possibly keep to what will make the year more beautiful for them.  We all can't have the same goals and agenda for our lives but it's always good we plan ahead and make sure we achieve a better fragment of what we outlined, certainly it might be very difficult to achieve but it...

 Funny how life could turn out to be, so many had good plans for their lives and others never had any, yet life takes turn to play out as it pleases it. No one ever wishes for any negativity even after setting a lot in place, the reality of pain, worry and fear rules the day and blows you off your feet. Wished we had the best of all our desires but really wishes don't come through, rather they come once  in a life time, while the other ninety nine percent is full of wars and fears. Many a time try and find happiness in all you do, if you don't, it will never come, life on its own is filled with struggles, challenges and anxieties unending until one rests beneath the ground. Whatever steals your happiness, quit from it, stay far away from anyone who drags you down, who takes your peace away from you and makes you less a person and who never values or appreciates your being. Life is too short to stick around people who care only about their self and considers your existence as n...

   It is better to remain single and purposeful than to marry and torment your partner with your dirty life style and bad attitudes. Training your children to become instrument in the society does not end at home but their lives must be impacted individually, sadly, even when high morals are adhered you will still see many of them who chose to becomes pains to their parents, to an innocent spouse and even their family and a societial nuisance. Marriage can be draining when you marry a spouse who doesn't listen to you , run all your effort downs, never appreciate you as a person let alone value your worth. Can I say that marriage is not for everyone, some are married but lives single, never indulges their partners in any affair whatsoever, take decisions alone and expect to be treated well, life indeed is a reciprocated reaction. You must not marry, if you know you can't accept what you do to others, you must not marry, when you know you will cheat, you must not marry when you ...

  Life as certain as it is, so unpredictable and one can't control what you can't hold of, there are so many reasons why people suffer, even when they are in subjected to good environments and while some are not so privileged. There are many types of suffering in the world as of today. Many suffer from hunger, even when there is plenty food around them but they can't have access to it, funny enough some who have food and can't eat because there is a life clause they are subjected to, more so, there are placed where access to food is a major challenge, hence the people living around there are subjected to abject hunger and starvation. Sickness and diseases is another way people suffer, many have so much money and connection to heal themselves but nature won't forgive hence they remain in their diseases despite all the affluence, while some people are in so much pain because they don't have anyone to help them in the cause of medical attention and care, hence they...

What is good for the geese is also good for the gander, I am so sure you know what it means to react to people the way you treat them, if you treat someone with lots of disdain and pain, certainly when you encounter such, you won't complain.  In the case of married couple, when you keep treating your spouse in a wrong way, be mindful that if they do the same thing you do to them, you will obviously not survive it. Marriage isn't about competition, rather every one is equal in it, you are the head as a man and she is the neck as the woman, hence the need to see that one can't do without the other, so whatever measure you take affects the other. You can't be married and still enjoy cheating and hiding things form your spouse, the day things will fall apart you will have your self to blame. Often times we act alone, take decisions without indulging our partners, we live as though we are still single even when we are married, neglecting the feelings of the other and acting ...

Some people would say things like, "when I am rich, I would travel round the world and build empires, others would say when I grow older" I will visit so many places some would even say when I am secured I will protect those around me. There so many wishes that never come through, there are so many words that never came to pass, but there are actions no matter how little grow to be what many enjoy till tomorrow. It is so good to make wishes but it is more beautiful to carry out our dreams and make them realities, for our own benefits and the good of others. Often times life's event might take place, situations so unbearable may occur, sometimes too, time and chance might not surface again and the we lose such opportunities. When you become deliberately intensional, you go an extra mile to achieve things, make the best use of your time and create lasting relationships and build great empires. Many live in total regrets today because of the things they neglected, the time t...