LEAVE INTACT

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Leave while you can with your whole self.
It's better to stay alive than to be dead in any given relationship.

No one is tied to you in marriage, there is no marriage in heaven or hell, hold your mental health and state of mind in tact to know what next to do and take charge of your life.

There are so many unbearable stories of toxic relationships, so unheard of, many a time the one you think is the key player in creating chaos in the relationship might just be the one holding the relationship.

No one is absolutely tied to another, relationships must come and go, build and break, stay or divide, it's a given fact that must always happen as long as two people are involved, no relationship is made perfect, it's all full of flaws and faults but the commitment levels determines how far you both can go.

No one has all what it takes to keep a relationship intact, none is perfect rather what plays out in most relationships is accepting each others flaws and striving to become better if both of you are willing to make that move.

Stay alive to make good decision for your self, your children and a future you so hope for, no dead person has plans when they're gone, that's why you must guide your state of mind and health to Aviod any form of violence in any relationship affairs.

Some of these so called partners in relationships apare so innocent,harmless and cool ,they are so lovable outside but when they come to their homes their are living beast you can't ever imagine.

They torment their partners with so much wiles,very manipulative and domineering, they never learn and they are so unteachable, never yielding nor bending ,they are always right and totally defensive.

These set of people are highly religious ,informed and they go about hurting just because they want only their opinions to be heard and their partners thoughts are so irrelevant.

Such relationship head to the bricks because it's is built on ego, pride and selfishness,it takes a lot of grace to survive such humiliating relationships.

Like I earlier said ,it is better to stay alive than to die in a toxic relationship,there is no joy in been dead, out of something you could have saved your life from just because you want to remain in that' relationship to be called married just because of what society will say.

It's hard to move on but it is sweeter to stay positively alive, hale and healthy, the future might hold something better for you in places you never can tell than to remain in a place where you are not valued , appreciated
and loved .

Vivsravine

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